Redditor's Friend Gets Angry At Her For Not Inviting Her On A Date With Her BF, Redditors Suspect Love Triangle In Making

"Turns out she wanted to be with us all the time during his visit for 3 days straight"

Maryjane

• Published in Interesting
• December 26, 2022

With the availability of texting and video conferencing, it seems that maintaining a long-distance relationship is simpler than ever. The time when long-distance calls had to be restricted is long over; they are no longer considered a luxury.

We are no longer in the era of waiting for our family members to check their email after work or waiting for the emails to arrive. Even while we are out shopping, working, playing, watching a movie, and doing much more, instant messaging keeps us connected to one another.

However, as anyone in a long-distance relationship will tell you, technology cannot make up for everything in a long-distance relationship. The OP in today's AITA story is in a long-distance relationship, and her boyfriend flew in to see her and stayed in her apartment.

This is a rare occasion, as they don't meet as often, so they planned a date before inviting the OP's friend over. The OP's friend suddenly got mad at her for not inviting her earlier on to join them on their date, as she also wanted to spend that time with the OP and the boyfriend.

The OP tried to explain that they needed some space and time to spend as a couple, but it was as if she were talking to a wall. Apparently, the OP's friend wanted to be with them all the time during her BF's visit for three days straight. 

The OP writes

The OP's boyfriend flew into the city to be with her for three days

The OP's friend wanted to be with them for the entire time

In summary...

Here are some of the top comments from Redditors for you to read through below

There's definitely something fishy here

A creepy friend indeed

This is definitely a head scratcher

Maybe she has a crush on the OP's boyfriend

How is you going on a date toxic?

She has no claim on your time

Your flatmate's reaction to this is very odd

This Redditor would discuss this with the boyfriend

She really wants to spend some time with your boyfriend

Who wants to go on a date with a couple that's spending time together?

This is where everything gets more interesting

What does the OP's boyfriend think about this whole issue

Your friend has some Issues

This Redditor would put space between this friend and her life

It is what it is

Time to go low contact with her

Why doesn't she understand what a couple is?

This Redditor does not want to go into speculation

Heard about clam dam?

Despite the lack of constant physical presence, many long-distance relationships nonetheless appear emotionally challenging. No one can guarantee it will be simple; the additional distance prevents many things from being doable.

You might experience moments of loneliness and sadness as well as a confusing situation, just like this one. You can drop your thoughts about this story in the comments section below.

Maryjane