Redditor's Weight Loss Post Triggers Unexpected Clash With Friend's Girlfriend Battling Eating Disorder

"I told her I was going to post whatever I wanted, and if she didn't like it she should unfollow me."

Jesse

• Published in Interesting
• May 16, 2023

Several people worldwide have weight issues that they struggle with daily. Some people believe they are overweight, while others think they are underweight.

There are different reasons people set weight targets for themselves. For some people, meeting their weight goals may be for health reasons. While for others, it’s a need to meet up with society's standards.

Regardless of the reason, reaching a desired weight can be a challenging and demanding journey. From strict dieting to intense exercising, the journey requires willpower and commitment.

Due to the difficulties attached to weight loss or gain, it’s common for people to feel excited after reaching their weight goal and to share that excitement on social media.

We found a Redditor who did just that but got reprimanded for posting without warning.

OP shared on the AITA subreddit that they had worked hard to lose 120 lbs in three years after being obese since childhood.

They posted a before and after photo of their transformation on Facebook. Their friend’s girlfriend reached out to complain that it was inappropriate for them to do so without posting a warning, which required people to click on the photo before seeing it.

OP responded that it was their account and they could post whatever they wanted to, and if she didn’t like it, she could unfollow them. Their friend’s girlfriend then reported to OP’s friend, alongside other mutual friends.

This started an argument, with some people agreeing with OP and others agreeing with their friend’s girlfriend, leading OP to ask the AITA question.

Scroll down to see the verdict!

The story in detail

OP worked extra hard to loose weight and decided to post their results on Facebook. However, they got an awkward message from their friend's girlfriend, Len, concerning this post

Apparently Len feels that the post is inappropriate because OP posted without a warning. In her opinion, this can cause a relapse in people with EDs

The Reddit community had a lot to say about this story. Let's check out the comments below:

"Other people’s triggers aren’t your problem"

"NTA, it’s your profile you’re allowed to celebrate your achievements"

"NTA - you're allowed to be proud of your weight loss in a private setting."

"Great job on dedicating YOURSELF and not placing it on other people."

"Your success has nothing to do with someone else's failure."

"They should know that social media is unpredictable and that content is always gonna be there"

"NTA. I would just block her."

"Len just doesn’t like being reminded of her own obesity/lack of effort."

"She needs to look for her own pride/self-worth, and not attacking others for success."

The commenters believe OP is NTA. They agree with OP’s statement that it’s their account, and they can post what they want to.

A lot of commenters also believe OP has done nothing wrong in trying to celebrate their achievements.

Join the conversation. Let us know what you think about this post and the verdict of the Reddit community.

Jesse