Bridesmaid Travels Across Country To Attend Best Friend's Wedding Only To Be Kicked Out Last Minute, Redditors Reacts

"I take responsibility for letting my feeling pile up over the years"

Maryjane

• Published in Interesting
• February 25, 2024

There are many reasons why someone may have to withdraw a wedding invitation. Usually, it's due to a logistical issue, as you might have misjudged how many people you can accommodate.

It's always advisable to err on the side of caution because it can be simple to add guests to your guest list but difficult to remove them. It is a grave violation of wedding etiquette to disinvite someone you have already invited.

It can be quite offensive and hurtful to others, and it is considered to be a very impolite thing to do. Regretfully, though, you might think there's nothing you can do.

In today's story, we see the bride-to-be, Sarah, inviting the OP to her wedding as her bridesmaid and her makeup artist. Sarah and the OP have been best friends for well over a decade.

They were practically inseparable for most of their adolescence, but once they graduated high school, they drifted apart. They still kept in touch until Sarah got engaged.

The OP's in college on the other side of the country, but she attended the bachelorette party. It’s important to note that the OP is extremely socially awkward, but with the new medication she's on, she talks and doesn’t know when to stop.

After the party, Sarah called the OP to tell her that she no longer wanted her to be a part of her wedding. She also said the OP no longer fits into her life because they are too different.

Read the full story below to find out all that transpired.

The OP kicks off her story and here it is

They expressed to each other that they would like to rebuild their relationship to what it was

The OP has gone through every moment in her head trying to comb through and find what she did wrong

Let's head into the comments section and find out what other Redditors have to chirp into the story

She has made a stand on what this friendshio is for her

This Redditor wants the OP to please take this with a grain of salt

The OP should think about sending her a bill of what she spent so far

The lack of contact crested problems for her

The OP should just respect herself since her friend doesn't deserve her

The OP is working on her issues and taking active steps to get better

The OP wouldn't know how to approach the topic to begin with

The OP seems to have really good intentions, and she overcame personal difficulties to try to be the best version of herself for her. OP traveled across the country to be there for Sarah, but she took all of her acts as evidence that she was an unsupportive and bad friend, so she doesn't deserve her.

It's acceptable to love someone and then let them go from your life. Drop your advice for the OP in the comments section below.

Maryjane