Woman Upset With Babysitter For Bringing Boyfriend Home, Husband Disagrees And Gets Angry At Her

"My husband thinks it's all cool but I was pissed"

Maryjane

• Published in Interesting
• September 9, 2023

The love and commitment of two people are commemorated at weddings. Every wedding is a singular and memorable event that will live forever in a couple's memory.

What about anniversaries, though? They should receive the same amount of attention as a wedding, right? Of course, the answer is yes!

One of the most treasured days in any couple's journey together, and one that brings back fond memories of your wedding, is your anniversary. Every anniversary can serve as a reminder of the origin of your relationship, how it has evolved, and what the future may hold.

Every couple can decide to mark their wedding anniversary, and it can be just as significant as your nuptials! You should commemorate your anniversary with whatever you, as a couple, feel is appropriate.

Some people like to enjoy a little quiet moment with their partner, while others want to create a big party and invite family and friends. As long as you keep in mind why you are celebrating, there is no wrong method to do so.

The OP and her partner love celebrating their wedding anniversary. One reason they do that is because they never get to go out alone, so their anniversary is one day they get to do that.

The last time, they hired their neighbor's daughter to babysit their three kids, and she did great. The kids loved her, and they felt safe leaving, so OP hired her again this time around, but ended up regretting it.

The OP kicks off her story

OP's husband thinks it's all cool but she was pissed and she said so as nicely as she could force herself to

Below are a bunch of the topmost comments from other redditors in response to the reddit story above

She should not have accepted the job if she couldn't handle it

A simple phone call could have avoided all these issues

This redditor says she should not be a babysitter if she can't handle the kids

This redditor can't believe the babysitter thought her actions were okay

What the baby sitter did was totally wrong in all ramifications

The OP has every right to be uncomfortable and upset with what she saw

That move was a major breach of trust, according to this redditor

This redditor hopes the OP can find better childcare and take more dates

This redditor says that the baby sitter isn't right for the job if she can't handle the kids

One's anniversary ought to serve as a reminder to both parties of the initial reasons they fell in love and the reasons they want to be together. They could decide to throw a party or eat in silence by themselves.

The OP and her partner chose to commemorate their day by going out together but didn't expect what they saw on returning. Redditors have weighed in on the matter, and the OP was declared not the AH.

Maryjane