Woman Shares How She Went On A Date With A Supposed "Nice Guy" But Was Uncomfortable All Through

"I’ll surprise you. I know what you want."

Maryjane

• Published in Interesting
• May 18, 2023

The majority of women want to date someone who is polite, caring, and thoughtful. But it's a well-known fact that some men who call themselves "nice guys" can actually be everything but nice.

For women who once considered them potential mates, these guys may behave so entitled, deceptive, or even abusive toward them. Nobody understands this better than Tiktoker Talisa, who recently gained popularity for releasing a (now-deleted) video on this subject.

She eventually went on a first date with a man who initially appeared to be "nice" but turned out to be quite a lot to handle. Mind you, this story doesn't have a great starting as the guy had a pretty rough beginning despite the tiktoker telling him that she doesn't like surprises.

The entire meal was under his strict control, and Talisa finally decided to rant about the terrible date in the ladies' room. Eventually, they walked out of the eatery into a downpour.

Once more, her date insisted on being a gentleman, and I'll just pause here and let you get the full story below.

Even fantastic first dates occasionally end in awkwardness

Their conversation kicks off:

Me: Thank you for taking me here.

Him: You’re welcome.

Waitress: All right, I’ll get those going and then I’ll come back and grab your order.

Me: Thank you very much. Alright, so I liked what she had mentioned about the scallops. That sounded really good. I’m a big seafood fan, so I think I’m gonna do that.

Him: Let me order for you. I’ll surprise you. I know what you want.

Me: I hate surprises. You know this place better than me so…

The guy practically controlled everything

The tiktoker made it clear that she hates surprises

Rib eye with mashed potatoes

Oh okay

Wine or no wine?

So no wine then

Adding calories to one's body

A nice little date

What are you looking for?

Knowing what women like

Here goes nothing

A cut above the rest

Having what I have

Taking the soup too

Can't even order

He thinks he's nice

Drinking in all awkwardness

You will not embarrass me

It goes on...

Just don't make a scene

A gentleman gets the door

Getting there a lot faster

Getting the door

People's opinions on this guy are evident in the comments and here are some of them

Way too many dudes like this

So many red flags

Pickup artist

Society is devolving

The red flag

Calling an uber

Toxic chivalry

That is terrifying

A cage in my basement

Lasting longer than necessary

Adding no calories

Everything feels sociopathic

Going on a date

Run!

My cue to leave

Freaking comment

Running the other way

So women like less calories

This commenter has encountered such men before

Choosing her own food

A short story

Red flag after red flag

Serial killer vibes

Getting the rib eye

Ignoring everything

Hats off

The red wine

Talisa released a second (now-deleted) Tiktok video after the first one went viral to clarify that it was only a parody of a bad date she had

Not all dates will have a perfect ending, but this TikToker seems to have her date going wrong from the start. It's just so annoying to find out that Mr Nice Guy is just doing everything wrong.

Have you encountered such a person before? How did you handle it?

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Maryjane