Here is the OP's dilemma:
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The OP explained her husband has always been insecure about himself:
His friends worsened that insecurity to the point that he asked her for a paternity test:
It truly hurt the OP, so she gave him an ultimatum:
He told her he had chosen not to do it, but the OP recently found he was lying:
The OP is now confused and asking for advice to handle her emotions and the situation:
Couples counseling could help them
He should work on his trust issues
He needs therapy to learn to love himself and his family
The OP explained:
"Isn’t him not trusting you- it’s a complete lack of self confidence"
A Redditor gave their honest opinion
The OP replied:
"It think the fact that he got rid of those friends does indicate he has made some changes in his life."
Redditors advised the OP to go to couples therapy and try to solve their broken trust. They also reminded her that her husband's trust issues do not originate from her actions but from his own insecurity.
Either way, he should seek therapy on his own and work on himself a bit.