Should I Let My Sweaty Friend Borrow My Clothes Again? AITA?

Are you the jerk for refusing to let your sweaty friend borrow your clothes? In a recent Reddit post, a user shared a frustrating experience.

The OP, who usually doesn't mind lending clothes, allowed their friend to borrow a cherished Japanese velvet top, only to find out later that the friend had forgotten to wear deodorant and sweated all over it. The friend admitted the top smelled bad and would be returning it after a month, causing distress to the OP who values their delicate pieces.

The post sparked a debate among commenters, with many supporting the OP's decision not to lend clothes again. Some shared their own unfortunate experiences of lending clothes, with outcomes ranging from sweat stains to irreparable damage.

The consensus seemed to be that it's essential not to loan out items you're not prepared to lose or have returned in poor condition. Overall, the thread sheds light on the complexities of sharing personal belongings, emphasizing the importance of setting boundaries and considering the value you place on your possessions.

The discussion delves into the nuances of friendship, trust, and respect for personal property, prompting readers to reflect on their own boundaries when it comes to lending items to others.

Original Post

Sorry the title is mean. I let my best friend borrow my clothes- I usually don’t mind too much when people borrow my clothes (I do internally feel a little stressed).

This was the first time she has asked, and my clothes are very important to me. I am obsessed with Japanese clothing, and a lot of my items are delicate.

This one was a beautiful velvet top with mesh and ribbon- it’s one of my favs and she knows it. She took back to her home town, and forgot it there so won’t be able to give back for a month (don’t mind too much about this, it was a mistake).

However, she also told me she forgot to put on deodorant and has sweated all over it. This made me upset...

I know its an honest mistake but she told me the smell was bad too. She assures me she’s handwashing it and it will come back to me the way I gave her it, but I am still sad.

I said I’m overreacting by not allowing her to borrow my clothes again, since it will come back the way I gave her it. I can’t get over it though!

Am I being too much of a hygiene freak? Her parents both agree with her, but her boyfriend agrees with me. 

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