People Share The Skeletons In Their Closets That Would Drastically Change How Others View Them
I’m not sure I’d believe someone who claimed to have no secrets. I feel like secrets are inherent to our nature as humans.
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There are some things that feel as though they can’t be shared with anyone else. Sometimes it’s as simple as a controversial opinion; other times, it can be something much deeper and sinister.
The fear and anxiety of being negatively judged, rejected, or feared by others because of our secrets make it that much harder to share. But there’s truly a remarkable feeling of relief to be able to share these heavy burdens.
Thanks to the internet, we have the ability to remain safe within the anonymity it provides. This helps make sense for why a recent r/AskReddit question received a lot of attention.
User u/Difficult-House6853 asked fellow Redditors, “What’s a secret that would change how the people around you look at you if they knew?” and received thousands of responses. Folks, emboldened by the anonymous nature of the internet and Reddit took their opportunity to share the skeletons they’ve hidden deep in their closets, and many found solidarity from other Reddtiors.
We collected the top 30 most popular responses to share with you. Keep scrolling to read more.
1. An seemingly unending emptiness
I’m empty inside and have been since 2019.
![1. An seemingly unending emptiness](https://static.dailysquared.com/posts/57a341c600eba2a8a973d86a46a27c84_21378.gif)
2. Chaotic Zoo Keepers
A few years ago, I went to the zoo during their Halloween celebration month where costumes were allowed. I dressed up as a zoo keeper. I told people that the penguins were animatronic.
That when the giraffes get sick we feed them to the lions. I told a group of children that scientifically speaking, snakes and apples are cousins.
![2. Chaotic Zoo Keepers](https://static.dailysquared.com/posts/798eed2c2d32f709001bed1ec405f4d4_21378.gif)
3. A big mood
I cry almost every night but don‘t want to tell anybody since I‘d feel like a burden
![3. A big mood](https://static.dailysquared.com/posts/0b3b7e33c5b5dc759ecdb6a45ec881cc_21378.gif)
4. Nihilism on point
I don't give a damn about anything or anyone at this point. Life feels like a game, and I'm just a spectator until this body fails. Any connections I form, I have no intention of nurturing.
The human experience is so shallow compared to the universe at large that I can't shake the perspective that none of the tears, suffering, or smiles matter at all. They're a flourishing of energy that'll at some point be done flourishing.
I don't understand how people get so invested in life like any of this show is of any importance at all.
I enjoy a pretty sunset, or a laugh with others, but I'm not convinced any of it makes the game worth the candle.
![4. Nihilism on point](https://static.dailysquared.com/posts/4094a5d68ff52d6a41318782468d24ca_21378.gif)
5. An ex-cult member
I was in a cult for a couple years.
![5. An ex-cult member](https://static.dailysquared.com/posts/c190f6cfd72d7976b07fe9eb932299fa_21378.gif)
6. Actively choosing kindness
What I’ve been through in the past, and what I continue to go through (because of my “broken brain” due to all that). I make a deliberate choice each day to choose love and connection, as cheesy as that sounds.
I don’t want anyone to ever feel as alone and unwanted as I do. I’ve gotten a reputation as “the sweet innocent one” and I come off as a bit naïve, it really shocks people if they learn about my past.
It’s like no, my kindness is a choice. I can’t change what happened but I can change what happens now, and what happens to others. Break the cycle, everyone!
![6. Actively choosing kindness](https://static.dailysquared.com/posts/88e65ece261ae55f7d7057af1a87426b_21378.gif)
7. *Talking Heads plays in the background*
I am married, I own my house (half-half with my wife) have 3 kids and I have a steady job. I have no clue how i got there, and i have no clue what I am supposed to do 90% of the time
![7. *Talking Heads plays in the background*](https://static.dailysquared.com/posts/e8490265a253ea97bbf2bf3681fff90d_21378.gif)
8. Trauma can be devastating longterm
I am under the constant and irrational assumption that everyone knows something that I don't. I fully understand that it is unwarranted and I'm being paranoid, but the mental blockade it has created means that it's really hard for me to trust people.
Think of it as constantly worrying that everyone has a snake in their pocket, and it's only until you know for sure they do/don't that you'll be fine.
![8. Trauma can be devastating longterm](https://static.dailysquared.com/posts/140f87918b88730cedd6d855c8d21856_21378.gif)
9. Janitor with millions
I’m a janitor. But I’m worth over a million dollars because I own real estate.
![9. Janitor with millions](https://static.dailysquared.com/posts/1d3894c06780c38763990d8e53b41f51_21378.gif)
10. A recovering abuser
I was an abusive boyfriend, I still can't forgive myself for it
![10. A recovering abuser](https://static.dailysquared.com/posts/b8db07cbcad78980ca723151f7669441_21378.gif)
11. A Christian who feels out of place
I'm a Christian (thus isn't the secret. I hope.) and am disgusted by a lot of things that fellow Christians do in the name of Christ. My spouse and I have a hard time going to church. Trump supporting, covid deniers, anti masking.
Yet hosting a vaccine clinic in the early days of mass vaccination roll outs as a service to the community and I'm sure to show Christ's love.
![11. A Christian who feels out of place](https://static.dailysquared.com/posts/3ef56ac9a3853ddb21f179dcc5038c4a_21378.gif)
12. An escort with a wealth of secrets
The actual things ive been paid ludicrous amounts of money to do as a highclass escort in Dubai.
![12. An escort with a wealth of secrets](https://static.dailysquared.com/posts/9fa66a27642b650abb2810707bf56332_21378.gif)
13. A self-proclaimed attention lover
Sometimes I crave attention from other people , like an attention hoe level
![13. A self-proclaimed attention lover](https://static.dailysquared.com/posts/b8aa49deed7fb25caa1f72eb9bddf8df_21378.gif)
14. All the trauma getting in the way
I have so much unresolved trauma and I'm just trying to have a good time
![14. All the trauma getting in the way](https://static.dailysquared.com/posts/cd59356525d0104b5a5567f0b6998018_21378.gif)
15. Faulty mental health
My mental health is circling the drain, I'm horribly depressed, but I am trying so hard to get better.
![15. Faulty mental health](https://static.dailysquared.com/posts/c948e74a7416f7bd83059fa7caf646ab_21378.gif)
16. Inevitable hormone changes causing unexpected side effects
I am an absolute horny mess right now…perimenopause is turning me into someone even I don’t recognize 😂
![16. Inevitable hormone changes causing unexpected side effects](https://static.dailysquared.com/posts/f589862120ca28ea81abe1cf8893ec6f_21378.gif)
17. Having an extremely stigmatized mental illness
I have schizophrenia.
![17. Having an extremely stigmatized mental illness](https://static.dailysquared.com/posts/34cc1c64881ce912e11bb09d09f8788d_21378.gif)
18. Literally anti-social
I have a very hard time liking/growing fond of people, even after knowing them for years. I could just drop all contact with them and not miss them at all. Was like this even as a child, all the way to now…
![18. Literally anti-social](https://static.dailysquared.com/posts/a368aeb9aafcc0226135c12e80e71335_21378.gif)
19. From a Mormon family, but is attracted to everyone
I like both men and women
It sounds trivial but my family is morman and I wound be able to handle it if they find out
![19. From a Mormon family, but is attracted to everyone](https://static.dailysquared.com/posts/87070c1f667221787973574781d4d60e_21378.gif)
20. Never graduated high school
I didn’t graduate high school. I was getting out of an abusive relationship my senior year, getting stalked, and was super depressed and ended up dropping out.
I got my GED at 20, and am now an engineering major at my university. But I’ve never told my friends or boyfriend that i didn’t graduate, and i even lie on job applications.
![20. Never graduated high school](https://static.dailysquared.com/posts/7d2c6dc783d9e93bfbd9e9f3acecae3c_21378.gif)
21. A victim of extreme child abuse
..My parents had me chemically castrated as a pre-pubescent kid?
..not really a secret though, turns out pretty much everyone around me knew way before I did...
well, during "the talk", I think that we spoke about having children, how a Mother and a Father comes together and make someone like them,but better.. or something along those lines (I'm almost 40, it's been a while)
and... well, if I remember things correctly, I think I might have said that I wanted to have children with my sister (3 years younger) so yeah, to prevent inbreeding I guess?
![21. A victim of extreme child abuse](https://static.dailysquared.com/posts/afb8e716c0f7eaedb6648bfde4076d6b_21378.gif)
22. A super sense of smell
My sense of smell is off the charts. I can usually tell if someone showers in the morning or at night by the way their hair smells. If someone ate a yogurt in an auditorium hours prior but threw out the container in the trash and I walk in on the other side of the room I can smell the yogurt. My memory is also sense-driven.
I remember people by their voices or scent, not their faces, or if there is something different about them (odd gait, odd body proportions, etc). My touch memory is also weird. Did I lock the front door?
I focus on my hand and go through what my hand has felt in the past 20 minutes and if the feeling of locking the door is there I’m good. I’m literally a freak and if people knew how much of their behavior/body-oddities/scent I actually have no choice but to remember, everyone would look at me like I’m a monster.
![22. A super sense of smell](https://static.dailysquared.com/posts/78f205ae5b40532a68224e2aebd4e987_21378.gif)
23. Living in fear
How incredibly terrified I am nearly all of the time. I'm not confident, I don't think I'm in control any more, I don't think I can do this. And still, here I go
![23. Living in fear](https://static.dailysquared.com/posts/87b490a7acf6058bb2f79f25a89fd70c_21378.gif)
24. Just trying not to be rude
People think that I’m a good listener, and that just makes them say things to me that they really shouldn’t. I’m only listening because I don’t want to be rude, not because I care. Don’t tell me your family secrets, please.
![24. Just trying not to be rude](https://static.dailysquared.com/posts/9017abaab7c99d012f01552c8df9a73d_21378.gif)
25. Their dog is better
I get more of a rush out of training my dog than any experience I've shared with humans. Dogs just feel more intense and genuine. when you look at them you know they are there, present, with you.
There's only a handful of people I can say have ever even come close to that level of understanding and none of them managed to achieve it without words the way the dogs I've worked with can.
![25. Their dog is better](https://static.dailysquared.com/posts/6b34f1e610ba5282abe19097f64f748f_21378.gif)
26. How dark those intrusive thoughts can get
My intrusive thoughts. Holy shit sometimes i surprise myself on how gnarly i think in just a second.
![26. How dark those intrusive thoughts can get](https://static.dailysquared.com/posts/e9d27f8c1db337bc54473b7f83a50b94_21378.gif)
27. Their plans to leave their religion
All of my friends and family are Jehovahs witnesses, they think I am but I plan to leave. 85% of them will shun me when I leave
![27. Their plans to leave their religion](https://static.dailysquared.com/posts/1bffa124510c0fd3cfda517798b46518_21378.gif)
28. Their real identity
That I have serious gender identity issues and would transition in a heartbeat if I could, except I know that none of my family would ever accept me.
![28. Their real identity](https://static.dailysquared.com/posts/22952c33fe9a58dc719bb00cb90d1f2c_21378.gif)
29. Naughty neighborhood secret
Our house was the first one on our street to be built. My husband and I had sex in every single house on our street while they were under construction. I imagine our neighbors would look at us differently if they know we’d f**ked in their house before they even had a chance to.
![29. Naughty neighborhood secret](https://static.dailysquared.com/posts/5bb259dfb41735224151b135e0781ecc_21378.gif)
30. Not to be dismissive, but I feel like many of us are
How much of an emotionally exhausted and fragile wreck of a person I am right now.
![30. Not to be dismissive, but I feel like many of us are](https://static.dailysquared.com/posts/c25ab4150ac375bdb2166276ce42e8b2_21378.gif)
Do you have any “skeletons” that you’d hope will never see the light of day? What do you think would change for you if your friends or other loved ones discovered your deepest, darkest secret you would never want to have shared?
While you don’t have to share the details (but you are definitely welcome to), drop a comment below to share your thoughts.