Woman Attempts To Protect Friend Group From Newcomer Trying To Break It, Her Plan Backfires
You have friends, and you're a friend to someone, so it's a world of friendships. Having friends can significantly improve your health and well-being, but making and keeping friends is not always simple.
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It's left to you to recognize the value of social interaction in your life and learn how to create and maintain lasting friendships. In many ways, friendships can improve your life.
You can actually learn about yourself and be challenged to do better by good friends. They support you through difficult times and rejoice with you when you achieve your goals.
It turns out that having positive relationships has a positive impact on one's physical health. A close-knit social network is said to help lower your risk of diabetes, heart attacks, and strokes, among other health issues.
Strong social relationships can also help reduce loneliness, which has been linked to a lower life expectancy. When you're feeling uncertain, supportive friends can provide you with encouragement and reassurance, which can make you feel more confident.
They'll highlight your wonderful qualities and everything that you have to give people. I could go on and on giving the importance of friends and friend groups but let's dive into the story of today.
As you can already tell by the title, it's all about friends but this particular friend group couldn't stand the test of time as some people were tossed out along the way. Read the OP's full story as you scroll down below.
OP writes
![OP writes](https://static.dailysquared.com/posts/a30c4e44e3cf87eb342ad54e1e3524e0_27463_700.jpg)
OP thinks about it now and realized they never truly had meaningful conversations
![OP thinks about it now and realized they never truly had meaningful conversations](https://static.dailysquared.com/posts/2e3739953009385d22f9af3429ae26c0_27463_700.jpg)
What once was a strong friendship changed into making her feelings
![What once was a strong friendship changed into making her feelings](https://static.dailysquared.com/posts/338b5f22c2725ab5d3779f259a80c718_27463_700.jpg)
The OP ended up calling him and telling him everything after a week
![The OP ended up calling him and telling him everything after a week](https://static.dailysquared.com/posts/938803006de2311e891a835e66f32300_27463_700.jpg)
OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the AH:
I believe me telling other people in the group about the possible homewrecking could have made me an AH and how I went about telling Bella and Tom
And here, we have some of the most upvoted comments from other Redditors
![And here, we have some of the most upvoted comments from other Redditors](https://static.dailysquared.com/posts/3e7b36f0bd93efa329c6753c1e5546f7_27463_700.jpg)
The OP should just say that it's personal
![The OP should just say that it's personal](https://static.dailysquared.com/posts/22769afe645466773b2391d3b5c55673_27463_700.jpg)
The OP didn't want to speak about it
![The OP didn't want to speak about it](https://static.dailysquared.com/posts/17f9b1af26e94f41d849d676e6d1dd03_27463_700.jpg)
The OP reveals more details in the comments
I did tell her if she was going to cross a line I was going to tell him and she originally agreed to that and she was actively trying to homewreck. I didn’t tell him everything just a few of the texts that showed her wanting to homewreck cause he asked for it before talking to her
They sound socially stunted
![They sound socially stunted](https://static.dailysquared.com/posts/6dc624e54c97b05f567980e9f9b6c567_27463_700.jpg)
The OP didn't set her own boundaries
![The OP didn't set her own boundaries](https://static.dailysquared.com/posts/768e760c1caeaf42e74442dd0105b81c_27463_700.jpg)
The OP exposed everything told to her in confidence
![The OP exposed everything told to her in confidence](https://static.dailysquared.com/posts/ce92024aa8791c77cdfaae5842a1ba0d_27463_700.jpg)
Everybody occasionally struggles with uncertainties and self-doubt. However, having people who encourage you is crucial to increasing your sense of self-worth, or how much you value and adore yourself.
The OP said she doesn't like drama like this and didn’t know what to do about it. Still, she was given the AH verdict and you can leave your own verdict in the comments section below.