Pregnant Woman Decides Not To Tell Her Husband That Their Baby Was Kicking, Husband Finds Out In The Most Shocking Way

"I don't feel comfortable putting the boundary down at all"

Maryjane

• Published in Interesting
• February 26, 2023

It's normal to be afraid of situations that make you feel unsafe or uncomfortable. For many individuals, this includes pregnancy and childbirth.

However, these ideas hardly ever interfere with everyday life. When you have phobias, you experience intense fear and take extra precautions to escape certain situations.

You might struggle to control your irrational thoughts and actions. Phobias can occasionally prevent people from achieving their life objectives, such as starting a family or adding to one.

People who become pregnant may not be happy about it and attempt to conceal their developing child. There is no reason to feel ashamed of getting pregnant, and you shouldn't have to go through these emotions by yourself.

One of the first actions you can take to find relief is to speak with your healthcare practitioner, or a therapist like the OP and her husband did. Yes, the OP in today's story has had a fear of pregnancy her entire life.

She and her husband were going to get a surrogate, but she took it in. They went to therapy, where they decided to go through it together.

The OP doesn't want people touching her stomach, so she never told her husband when the baby started kicking. The husband found out the hard way, and he wasn't happy about it.

Keep scrolling to read the entire story for yourself. 

The Headline

They compromised and decided to use a surrogate, but the OP ended up pregnant

He was worried that I was so late in pregnancy without feeling any movement

The OP talked it over with my mom and she agreed that she was harsh to him

Let's head over to the comments and read what other redditors had to say

This Redditor needs some additional info

Is he not meant to be your husband?

Using that to expand his non involvement

How this Redditor believes the marriage will end up

What is wrong with letting him bond with your child?

You have to trust in a relationship and you didn't

Not trusting him to respect your boundaries

This Redditor's husband's way of being included

Never withhold information because you don't want to discuss it

You need to sort yourself out

You should not be married or having a kid

Your husband is not your college buddy

You are possibly insecure and freaking out

You stated your boundaries about being touched

You didn't trust him to respect your boundaries

Don't randomly try to feel my stomach

This Redditor has the complete opposite of this story

That's not what most mothers day to the father

This will not end well for any of you

A lot of individuals experience pregnancy anxiety as some individuals avoid getting pregnant due to this phobia. But the OP is pregnant, and her husband can't give her proper support if she's not letting him know what's going on with the progress of her pregnancy.

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Maryjane