35 Instances Of Employers Writing Such Delusional Memos That Their Employees Felt Compelled To Expose Them
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This dad is terrified that his brother-in-law could replace him very soon.
Parenting can be tough, especially when you feel like you’re competing with your own brother-in-law for your kids’ affection. That was the reality for one dad who found himself in an unexpected rivalry for his children’s attention and trust.
Back when our narrator (Original Poster) and his wife’s three kids were younger, their work schedules were chaotic. That’s where the brother-in-law came in—the superhero uncle with a flexible job.
He swooped in to help with school runs and occasional sleepovers, and life was manageable, all thanks to him.
As their work lives settled down, they needed the brother-in-law’s help less and less. However, his presence in the children’s lives remained strong—maybe a little too strong.
The kids adored their uncle to the point where it felt like OP was being sidelined. Take the time his daughter needed panty liners. Instead of asking her dad, who was right there in the yard, she called her uncle.
Or how about the moment his son was questioning his sexual identity; the first port of call wasn’t mom or dad, but—you guessed it—dear old Uncle.
The final straw was when his son fell ill at school and called for his uncle instead of his parents. A text from the brother-in-law asking his wife to let the school know he was picking their son up was the match that lit the fuse.
When he dropped their sick child off, OP exploded. He confronted his brother-in-law for overstepping boundaries and told him to back off.
This led to a fiery disagreement with his wife, who argued they were lucky to have her brother’s help, but OP’s frustration only boiled over. He didn’t want to be the last resort in his children’s lives anymore. Was that too much to ask?
Redditors unanimously deemed OP the AH. The balance between gratitude and boundaries is a tightrope, and OP was teetering right in the middle.
They urged him to strive to be a better dad because eliminating the uncle wouldn't bridge the emotional gap between him and his kids. Only genuine effort and self-improvement will.
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