The OP writes
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OP grabs it away and yell at him to get the hell away from her cat until he's learned some manners
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It's interesting OP's husband keeps inviting him over
It does highlight a big issue
The OP didn't have a right to out his meal
From a Redditor who believes the OP has more of a husband problem
NTA though you have more of a husband problem than a husband's friend problem, Steve has shown he has zero respect for you in your own home with your own pet and your husband is allowing this to continue in your home.
He can have his friendship with Steve but he should not be welcome in your shared home where he only has respect for one resident and keeps trying to feed the family pet food that could make them ill or even be toxic to them.
Why is his behavior even tolerated in the first place?
The husband did nothing when his wife was called names
Garlic is toxic to cats
The OP should give Steve cat food
OP's husband is as much of an AH as his friend
Neither of them would be allowed back
It essentially communicates one's belief when they are so significant that they think they can harm or even cause inconvenience to other living things on a whim. In addition to being poisonous to dogs and cats, this friend has been warned to cut it out.
Many Redditors say that if the OP's husband continues to let his friend do this despite her repeated requests for him to stop, then she has a problem with her marriage.