Girl In A Dilemma On Keeping Or Rehoming Her Beloved Dog Because Of Stepdad’s Allergy

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Maryjane
Girl In A Dilemma On Keeping Or Rehoming Her Beloved Dog Because Of Stepdad’s Allergy

Most pet allergies are caused by exposure to the dead skin flakes that pets shed. Pet allergies can occur in any animal with fur, but cats and dogs are the most commonly affected.

If you or a member of your family is allergic to pets, the best strategy is to avoid or limit your exposure to them as much as possible. Medications may be necessary to relieve symptoms, but avoidance is the cornerstone, even though it might be difficult because of the connection you might have with the pet.

This is the exact corner a Redditor, musical_moron, and her family found themselves in. The Redditor has a lovely black purebred Labrador Retriever.

The original poster’s stepdad didn’t know he had an allergy to any dog, or somewhere along the line, he developed an allergy to dogs. The OP loves her dog dearly and is also on good terms with her stepdad.

So, it is indeed a tight situation for her to either send her beloved dog away or allow her caring stepdad to continue suffering from the allergy. We have compiled snapshots from the original post and comments for you to read about how the entire story unfolded, leading to the OP sharing the story with the AITA group for their opinions.

The title...

The title...musical_moron

Here is a preface for y'all

Here is a preface for y'allmusical_moron

I don't know what I would do without him

I don't know what I would do without himmusical_moron

Jack isn't able to wait that long

Jack isn't able to wait that longmusical_moron

And the comments roll in...

1. This commenters seeks some additional info

1. This commenters seeks some additional infoReddit

2. You don't sound like a bad person

2. You don't sound like a bad personReddit

3. This commenter was bullied into rehoming the dog

3. This commenter was bullied into rehoming the dogReddit

4. That is not good for him either

4. That is not good for him eitherReddit

5. That's not on you or your dog

5. That's not on you or your dogReddit

6. It's pretty obvious he can't stay there

6. It's pretty obvious he can't stay thereReddit

7. That's on your mom and Jack to figure out

7. That's on your mom and Jack to figure outReddit

8. He's try allergic and it sucks

8. He's try allergic and it sucksReddit

9. He can deal with it until you move out

9. He can deal with it until you move outReddit

10. This commenter lists a lot of helpful ideas to try out

10. This commenter lists a lot of helpful ideas to try outReddit

11. Jack should be the one to come up with a solution

11. Jack should be the one to come up with a solutionReddit

12. A product for people who are either allergic to cats or dogs

12. A product for people who are either allergic to cats or dogsReddit

13. Rehoming a dog is never letting them down

13. Rehoming a dog is never letting them downReddit

14. I don't know how this will pan out

14. I don't know how this will pan outReddit

15. We need to figure other solutions out together

15. We need to figure other solutions out togetherReddit

16. You require an emotional support animal

16. You require an emotional support animalReddit

17. Keep Tango in your room

17. Keep Tango in your roomReddit

18. An info has been added in the comments

18. An info has been added in the commentsReddit

19. The dog will adjust to a new family

19. The dog will adjust to a new familyReddit

20. This Redditor thinks the OP is the a**hole here

20. This Redditor thinks the OP is the a**hole hereReddit

If you have a family member with allergies to any of our pets, the probable course of action would be to avoid contact with the pet, and this might involve relocating the pet or avoiding contact with the pet.

Whichever way we choose to go – relocating the dog or avoiding contact – it will always be a difficult thing to do because feelings will definitely be involved.

What are your thoughts on this matter? Let us know in the comments section below.

Maryjane