Girl Goes To Her Ex's Wedding Instead Of Her Girlfriend's Graduation

It's always interesting to hear about family dramas and what people have to say about all of it.

Daphnie

• Published in Interesting
• August 11, 2023

We're back again today with yet another awesome Reddit post from the AITA Thread that we often take a look into. These posts are submitted by people who are looking for unbiased advice and opinions on people for whatever situation they are looking into.

We are definitely going to love looking into this situation because people had a lot to say in the comments, and we definitely can understand why. With this being said, we are going to dive into this post that was submitted by a woman who wants to know if she's wrong for going to her ex's wedding instead of her girlfriend's graduation.

Basically, OP's ex is also her best friend, and she's the maid of honor at the wedding, but obviously, her current girlfriend is pretty upset about this. So OP wants to know if she's in the wrong for choosing her ex's wedding over the graduation because that is her best friend.

If you're interested in knowing more about this situation and what people had to say in the comments section below, then keep on reading as we dive in and take a look at the full post and what the best comments were as well.

OP gives a bit of a backstory on her and her ex, but then explains why she chose to go to the wedding over the graduation.

OP says they were very open but that this situation obviously caused a huge argument.

This is when everything happened and her girlfriend was not okay with OP going on the trip for the wedding.

People quickly came to the comments and let OP know that they were indeed TA for the decision that they made.

OP actually responded to the comment below and had a little conversation about the decision that she made here.

People assumed that the girlfriend probably wouldn't be there when she got back because she made her choice very clear.

That's an important piece that many people missed because she seemed surprised that she wasn't aware of her going to the wedding.

This seems like there are a lot of other possible issues going on that aren't even related to this. Communication is lacking.

It's important to prioritize those that matter and this was obviously a huge deal for her girlfriend and a chance to prove her love.

It definitely seems like everyone thinks OP is in the wrong for this and that the girlfriend will realize where she stands.

This is absolutely her choosing an ex over a partner now and we understand the level of friendship here but she's still and ex and that does matter.

People were a bit confused and conflicted about OP saying that their ex was more like a sister or bestfriend, which clearly can't be that true if they dated.

This could very well be the issue here and she needs to realize what she wants.

We really feel like everyone in the comments is right, and OP is most definitely wrong. I can't imagine how the girlfriend feels, but many people in the comments agree with the girlfriend's feelings on being neglected and put last.

What do you think about this situation?

Daphnie