Woman Deals With Ex-Wife Who Demands She Pays For Child Support, Knowing That The Child Isn't Hers Since They Are Both Women
She already has a family of her own, but her ex is still bothering her.
May
- Published in Interesting
Infidelity is among the most damaging things for married couples. According to an estimate by the American Psychological Association, 20-40% of marriages end in divorce because of infidelity.
The emotional and psychological pain it brings can destroy a marital relationship. For the faithful partner, it is often challenging to forgive and trust.
At the same time, they may suffer from depression and a loss of self-esteem. For the unfaithful partner, they may experience guilt, regret, and confusion about their actions.
They may also face societal judgment and the loss of respect from family and friends. Children, too, are significantly impacted by infidelity.
They may experience feelings of betrayal, loss of trust, and confusion about their parents' actions. Their perception of relationships and commitment may be tainted, influencing their future relationships negatively.
The story today is one of the many examples of how infidelity destroys marriages. It was shared by a female Redditor on the TrueOffMyChest subreddit.
The original poster (OP) tells the community that she married a woman seven years ago. They were doing great until the OP received her inheritance.
She used it to buy a condo and a car for her wife. Unfortunately, things took a turn for the worse when the wife admitted to the OP that she was pregnant.
In other words, her wife cheated on her. The OP provided child support for a year, gave the condo to her, and paid alimony.
The OP started dating before the divorce was finalized. They hit it off.
Suddenly, the woman stops communicating with her and shows up at her door. She admits that she's pregnant.
Things went south once again for the OP, but then she realized that her girlfriend didn't cheat on her.
She was 16 weeks pregnant, and they'd only known each other for three months. The two worked it out, got married, and established a family.
However, after discovering the OP's new life, her ex-wife began demanding additional child support.
The OP shared what she's been going through with an ex wife.
RedditThey were happily married, but the OP's wife cheated on her.
RedditThe two got divorced. Soon, the OP found someone new.
RedditBut the woman she's dating got pregnant too.
However, it's not because of an affair. Everything worked out in the end.
RedditThe ex heard that the OP has been supporting her wife's child. The woman started demanding for child support as well.
RedditThe ex-wife is even bothering her wife's family member.
RedditIt's time for the OP to get a lawyer so that she won't be bothered by her ex anymore.
RedditThe ex is contacting the wrong person. She needs to ask child support from the father.
RedditThe OP can always remind the ex-wife with the court decision.
RedditThe OP needs to involve a lawyer at this point. Then let the ex-wife know that she'll be dealing with a lawyer moving forward.
RedditThe OP shares the reason why the wife's family believed the ex-wife.
RedditA cease and desist order needs to be filed against the ex wife.
RedditThe ex-wife knows the OP has money. And she's willing to go to great lengths to siphon some of that from her.
That's why the OP needs to protect, not just wealth, but also her family's peace of mind. She needs to hire a lawyer to stop the ex-wife's attempts.