Trouble Looms As Guest Brings Crying Child To A Wedding That Is Meant To Be Child-Free

Just like every store, every wedding has a Karen

Maryjane
Trouble Looms As Guest Brings Crying Child To A Wedding That Is Meant To Be Child-Free

Weddings are a special time that is carved out for love and romance. No one wants any drama, disarray, chaos, confusion, or betrayal.

There is so much that goes into planning a wedding and everything is meant to go perfectly. It’s not a simple task to get hitched and for things to go well without a hitch.

A few weddings are tormented by bridezillas who attempt to control their guests in a demanding and discourteous way. In any case, this goes two different ways, and at times, sensible solicitations made by the wedding party are overlooked by childish and discourteous people.

And this can ruin the wedding for the couple. The last option is valid for this Redditor with the username u/babyweddingthrowaway, who figured it was wise to come along with a 10-month-old baby to a wedding that says "no kids".

The OP wanted to know if it was wrong to carry a baby to a child-free wedding, so she took her story to the AITA subreddit community. According to the story, the OP’s "cousin lives a 6-hour drive from me and the rest of our family."

No children were invited to the wedding except the bride's young nieces and nephews, and this was because there were limited spaces. The OP wasn’t comfortable leaving her baby with a babysitter just like the rest of her cousins did.

Instead, she chose to take her baby along with her, not knowing that she was already brewing trouble.

No children were invited to the wedding due to limited space

No children were invited to the wedding due to limited spacevia u/babyweddingthrowaway

There are consequences for every action, and even though we understand that the OP cherishes her baby, she did violate the wedding rules and that is bad no matter her reasons. Keep reading to find out how the whole story unfolded.

I wasn't comfortable leaving my 20 month old baby behind

I wasn't comfortable leaving my 20 month old baby behindvia u/babyweddingthrowaway

The bride didn't want to start any drama because she didn't know the OP

The bride didn't want to start any drama because she didn't know the OPvia u/babyweddingthrowaway

They thought I was given special treatment

They thought I was given special treatmentvia u/babyweddingthrowaway

The reddit post gathered a lot of attention, and it has been upvoted 17K times with more than 6,000 comments. Redditors wasted no time in condemning the OP while labeling her the a**hole in this story.

Some were of the opinion that she shouldn’t have gone if she wanted to stay with her baby rather than violate the wedding rules. Below are some of the most upvoted comments from the thread, so keep scrolling and check them all out.

You just decided that you were above the rules

You just decided that you were above the rulesvia u/babyweddingthrowaway

I knew people would try and go around it

I knew people would try and go around itvia u/babyweddingthrowaway

You don't get to change the rules of someone's wedding

You don't get to change the rules of someone's weddingvia u/babyweddingthrowaway

What some people fail to understand is that rules are there for a purpose. Even if you think what you’re doing is right, going against the wedding rules is still bad and can ruin things for the bride and groom.

What is your own verdict on this story? Did the OP go too far with her actions? Let us know your thoughts and opinions in the comments below.

Maryjane