Woman Takes Her Ex's Dog Because He Was Bad Owner, Seeks Advice As He Wants To "Borrow" Dog For Few Hours

"It has been four years and he has never visited Bruno"

Maryjane

• Published in Animal Stories
• February 10, 2024

If you own a dog, it's likely that your top priority is keeping your pet content and healthy. Nevertheless, there are more factors to take into account while thinking about the welfare of your pet.

One of such factor is the consequences of not walking your dog and how it might affect their mental health. There are some pet owners who believe that if a dog has a yard, there's no need to walk it because it can run around in the fresh air and relieve itself whenever it pleases.

But it's not supposed to be so. Dogs must be taken on walks outside in order to make their markings, smell the marks of others, learn new things, explore new areas, and interact with other dogs. 

OP's ex was a lazy person, and he never took his dog, Bruno, on walks. If he did, the OP guesses that it would be twice a year. They had a yard, and he felt that was enough for the dog.

The OP worked a nice 8–4 job and lived five minutes from home, so Bruno got into a routine. When they broke up, the OP said it was in the best interest of the dog to stay with her.

She told him that he could come to see the dog whenever he wanted and take him over the weekend, but he never did. The OP is now engaged to someone, and Bruno loves the OP's fiance more than he loves her.

He is just really good with dogs, is so attentive, and is just amazing. The OP now wants his ex to only have a supervised visit with the dog, but he's proving stubborn.

The headline

The OP was never a dog owner

The dog honestly didn't care about him

They had a yard and he felt that was enough for him

The OP's very afraid that he will do something

Here's the story's summary

My ex works long hours, was a bad dog owner. When we were together I primarily took care of the dog while he was working. When we broke up I kept the dog and he never visited. Now, four years later he wants to take the dog this week to the dog park. I am honestly afraid that he won't bring him back.

And the comments roll in...

Bruno is not his dog

This arrangement is wrong

The OP is the owner now

The OP continued contacting him

The OP should stop contacting him

The OP left this update later on

Redditors told the OP to never allow her ex to take her dog somewhere by himself as he doesn't even deserve to see Bruno because he has ignored the poor thing his entire life. Its also obvious that he doesn't even want to see him because he's never followed through on the visits.

When someone gets a pet only for show and doesn't commit to providing it with the necessary care, then they should forfeit it. As the OP has been its primary caregiver for such a long time, she now owns the dog.

Maryjane