Girl's Boyfriend Doesn't Want Her Going To Game Night Because She'll Be Around Men There

This is screaming red flag all over it but she's still with him.

Daphnie

• Published in Interesting
• December 21, 2023

This AITA thread has been a very popular pick here and most definitely on Reddit. There have been so many posts submitted here, and people are always so quick to come to the comments and give the original poster some advice on their situation.

In today's post, we're looking at a relationship where the girlfriend is looking to see if she's truly wrong for wanting to go out with her coworkers to a game night, even though her boyfriend doesn't want her to. This situation is just as toxic as it sounds, and people in the comments were already jumping down her throat.

Essentially, her boyfriend is jealous and worried she'll "cheat on him" with two 18-year-old boys who work with her at her adult gymnastics job. Now, this isn't the first time she's posted about him, and people definitely looked into that before commenting because many spotted that and called her out.

This is a classic case of someone repeatedly complaining on Reddit about their partner but not making choices to get themselves out of a supposedly toxic situation. We've seen these many times, and we definitely feel like they have more they need to work out. If you're interested in looking into the full post and also seeing the best comments that were left on the post, then keep on reading as we dive into it.

OP gives context, just like any other Reddit post would start off as.

This is when we get info about were she works and what exactly she's planning on going to with her coworkers.

This is when the boyfriend comes in and she discusses how he's not okay with her doing this.

She doesn't think it's a problem, but it seems that her boyfriend is dealing with some jealousy here.

This is absolutely not okay and this sounds like toxic behavior for sure.

The boundaries are for people to have with themselves, not with other people.

She explains that of course she's going for the games and to hang out with people but not for the two 18yos.

She did add an edit after people were asking questions in the comments about the situation and what exactly is going on.

She added an update to say that she's not going but not because of her boyfriend; we aren't convinced.

She did say that he apologized, but we don't feel like he meant it but rather he was just saying it to make her feel better.

Now this right here is a whole red flag and she should have known that was not a normal thing.

People quickly brought up that she's posted about him a lot and people are just wondering what she's going to do about it.

He is essentially asking when she's going to leave because this is the only way that she will be happy.

Pople basically are just saying that they agree with everyone else and it just doesn't seem like the boyfriend is a very good boyfriend.

She is indeed making a mistake and everything that this person said in this comment is absolutely right.

After 4 times you just have to be honest in saying that this is probably just not working out essentially.

He definitely is controlling her, or at least he's trying to and she's giving into him.

It's totally normal to see friends and go out like a normal human, especially since he's crossed her boundaries as well.

She's definitely picking the wrong one and it's essential for her to step up and really show her power here before he takes it.

We agree with most in the comments when it comes to talking about the boyfriend being very toxic.

We totally feel like OP is in a toxic relationship, and her boyfriend is a walking red flag that, apparently, she doesn't see. She needs to really step up and take what people are saying in the comments seriously because there are a lot of things that are wrong here.

I hope that OP steps up and does what she needs to do here.

Daphnie