Lady Calls Out Her Boyfriend For Taking A 10-Day Vacation With Another Woman That She Doesn't Like

"I was extremely upset, I told him how I felt"

Maryjane

• Published in Interesting
• August 25, 2023

Making time for activities that maintain romance can be challenging, given the monotony of daily life and the never-ending job schedules. An excellent way to keep the fire going is to set aside time to travel and discover the globe.

The connection deepens when you have great chats while strolling along picturesque paths or while lying in bed talking into your pillows. Traveling with your partner presents its own challenges, which you can overcome together to strengthen your relationship.

The term "baecation" refers to a romantic getaway with your significant other. Baecations are a great way to maintain the romance in your relationship, whether you choose to take secluded beach walks or take romantic strolls through beautiful gardens.

In fact, couples who travel together are likely to have stronger intimacy and a higher likelihood of sticking together. It's the ideal strategy for improving your relationship with your lover.

There are a few justifications for taking a getaway, whether you're looking to treat your partner to a romantic getaway or are simply celebrating an anniversary. The OP of today's story wanted this with her partner but never got it.

To make matters worse, OP's boyfriend chose to go on a 10-day Europe trip with his female friend, who OP doesn't like. He’s excited to go because he wants to take pictures, and he hasn’t been on a trip in a long time.

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OP's boyfriend and her were friends before she came into the picture and they traveled a lot together

Before her boyfriend went there, he told the OP he was just going to be there for an hour or so

OP says it was always a struggle to plan with her boyfriend so they only taken in state road trips

When there was a guy making OP's boyfriend uncomfortable, she would immediately cut him off

The boyfriend and his mom are both making her feel like her points aren’t valid and that she's just crazy

Comments rolled in and we've gathered some of the topmost replies for you to read through below

The OP should just break up

The OP might be the distance side chick

The OP has told him her concerns

He doesn't care about the OP's feelings

He's brushing her concerns off

The OP is being gas lighted

The OP is still young and can meet other people

He cares more about the friend

What you don't do in a relationship

It's not an arbitration process though

Getting out of the bad situation now

No more boyfriend

He's cursing the OP out for voicing her opinion

He's now an ex

The summer is one big party

The OP added this update later on...

There are few experiences that can be compared to waking up halfway across the world with a lover on a beach, regardless of how many vacations we take alone or with friends and family. Many Redditors believed the OP might not be the real girlfriend here and that she should find her way.

Apparently, she did as you can tell from her update. We wish the OP well in her decisions.

Maryjane