Redditor Blew Up Finding Out Her Babysitter Took A Shower While Her Husband Was Home When He Should Have Been At Work
Being a working mom can be so exhausting. You need to coordinate so many things.
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But first of all, you need to arrange who will take care of the children while you or your husband are at work, or even both of you. The ideal strategy would be if you could harmonize your work shifts so that one of you could look after the children in the morning and the other one in the afternoon.
Unfortunately, that's not always an option. And in that case, you'll reach for your parents to help or hire a babysitter.
It's not easy to entrust your children to someone, so asking parents to step in might be an easier option. Otherwise, the only option is hiring a babysitter.
There are good people who adore children and love to take care of them. But as we are all different, no matter how hard you try to explain your expectations to the babysitter, you should be aware that there must be some controversy in unexpected circumstances.
Recently, a Reddit user shared her story about her babysitter's inappropriate behavior. Actually, she thought it was inappropriate, but since she couldn't be objective, she asked the Reddit community to help her out.
Her husband told her she was overreacting, and the "poor girl" had to take a shower at their place because the children poured milk on her. But, was it a gallon of milk so she couldn't stand the stain and had to remove it by taking a shower while her husband was at home and watching the kids?
Let's find out all the shady details below.
Here's her concern:
She hired a babysitter.
Everything was fine before, but then she came home and found her babysitter had taken a shower while her husband was watching the kids.
She wasn't comfortable with this situation at all, so she told her.
Plus, her husband wasn't even supposed to be home at that time...
Yet, he supports the babysitter and claims she didn't do anything wrong.
This entire situation is just too weird and upsetting to the OP.
Additional info:
"I'm seeing a potentially bigger problem here, OP..."
She should talk to her husband...
"Hell, leave the babysitter alone."
"The issue is trust"
"It's kinda red flaggy."
"Talk about your very real fears and deal with that part of marriage."
Nothing unusual here:
Someone else agreed:
A Redditor was just wondering:
Her suspicion may be justified, but misplaced.
"You’ll be lucky if she ever comes back"
Is she too jealous?
"Is this really about milk?"
Even though the OP's concern was a little bit concealed and the responses of other Redditors were really various, with different perspectives, they all agreed that she should talk to her husband. If she has doubts about his infidelity, she should solve that problem with him, not with the babysitter.
What do you think regarding this whole situation? Is she too jealous, or she has the right to be suspicious?