OP lives in Europe but she usually goes back home for Christmas
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OP's mom has never met her fiance who she's been with for 4 years
OP's mom asked her and her fiance to stay with her for two months while doing some repairs around the house
OP asked her mom to bring her fiance when she visits for Christmas, but the mom didn't approve
The mom uninvited OP and told her that they wouldn't be needed in the spring
OP's fiance thinks that she should still visit her mom for Christmas
OP is now wondering if it would be wrong for her to not visit her mom at all
It's a trap, OP!
Enabling her behavior
Hold a united front
Start your own Christmas traditions
So, the big question: Would OP be in the wrong if she refuses to board the Christmas plane and endure the holiday havoc with her covert narcissist mom? It's a moral maze, a familial puzzle, and we're all holding our breath for the resolution.
The people of Reddit agree that OP should stand her ground and stay home for Christmas. They believe that the mom is just trying to separate the couple, and they need to stay united.