Woman Doesn't Support Her Friend's Pregnancy Because Of Her Overall Living Situation

It's hard when we are unsupportive of the larger events going on in our friends' lives.

Daphnie
Woman Doesn't Support Her Friend's Pregnancy Because Of Her Overall Living Situation

Welcome back to another AITA post that we have seen on Reddit recently. These posts are some of our favorites, and we love to see what people have to say and how people respond to the situation in the comments down below.

We've covered a lot of these posts before because of how much attention they've gotten, and we're happy to go over these posts and give some more attention to them. Ultimately people like to come to these threads to get unbiased advice and opinions on the situation that they came to Reddit about.

It's just a great way to get some opinions and see if you're wrong about how they reacted in the situation because sometimes we know that it's hard to see things from an outside perspective. We are here to go over a situation where a woman is unsupportive of her friend's pregnancy and is looking to see if she's TA for not being supportive.

Once you've heard the whole story, you might understand a bit more about what's going on and why OP isn't supportive of her friend's decision to have a baby at the moment. So with all this being said, let's dive in and see the full story and the comments that were left on it.

OP starts off with explaining a bit about her and her friend and how long they've known each other.

OP starts off with explaining a bit about her and her friend and how long they've known each other.Stitch_two_six

She says that she found out she was pregnant a few weeks ago but explains a bit more about their situation.

She says that she found out she was pregnant a few weeks ago but explains a bit more about their situation.Stitch_two_six

She explains even more about her friend's situation and why the baby might not be the best to bring into this world right now.

She explains even more about her friend's situation and why the baby might not be the best to bring into this world right now.Stitch_two_six

OP says that she wants to support her but just doesn't see how she'd be able to knowing her situation.

OP says that she wants to support her but just doesn't see how she'd be able to knowing her situation.Stitch_two_six

She added in an edit to say she doesn't quite know the timeline of her pregnancy.

She added in an edit to say she doesn't quite know the timeline of her pregnancy.Stitch_two_six

This person automatically says that she's NTA but asks why she'd want to be friends with someone who has a life like she does.

This person automatically says that she's NTA but asks why she'd want to be friends with someone who has a life like she does.Exciting-Ruin

Ultimately this person says that OP's unsupportiveness won't help anything, but that the friend does sound irresponsible.

Ultimately this person says that OP's unsupportiveness won't help anything, but that the friend does sound irresponsible.Responsible_Phase890

It seems like a lot of people are saying that everyone sucks here and that her friend could probably use her support.

It seems like a lot of people are saying that everyone sucks here and that her friend could probably use her support.iheartwords

Clearly OP is not supporting her friend's decision on having a baby right now, but it's clear that her friend might need some support.

Clearly OP is not supporting her friend's decision on having a baby right now, but it's clear that her friend might need some support.Konocti

OP might do best with telling her friend how she feels about the situation and being straightforward with her.

OP might do best with telling her friend how she feels about the situation and being straightforward with her.Hapnhopeless

Some people are quite stuck on the details of this post and we have to admit that so are we.

Some people are quite stuck on the details of this post and we have to admit that so are we.Slight-Bar-534

truly her friend might need her support since she seems to not have that much support around her at all.

truly her friend might need her support since she seems to not have that much support around her at all.ServelanDarrow

This situation is quite sad for the mom, and we just hope that this baby gets exactly what they deserve. We don't blame OP for taking a step back, but she might need some more support from her since it seems like she doesn't have a lot of support from anyone else in her life.

What would you do?

Daphnie