Man Refuses To Let His Best Friend Have Her Wedding On His Property After He Was Uninvited Over Something That Wasn't His Fault

"Rick believes it’s the least I can do after everything"

Maryjane

• Published in Interesting
• February 25, 2023

Many people may be experiencing dating for the first time ever while in college. College is the perfect time to take advantage of dating because it gives you newfound independence, a fresh start, and the chance to meet new people.

Also, since you'll probably be living near or with your buddies, you may go straight to their dorm rooms after a fun date or hookup to spill the beans. The OP in today's story is someone who dated his now-best friend back in college.

The OP is married now, and his wife knows about this and doesn't mind. The OP's best friend, Carla, is having a small backyard wedding.

They’ve been planning it for a few months now, and originally it was supposed to be on the OP's property. They wanted it that way because it’s private, has lots of open space for the reception, has a nice view, and the house could be used for them to get ready and stuff.

The OP didn't know that Carla never told her fiance about them, so when he found out, he was pissed. The couple went for couples counseling, and the wedding is still on, just that the OP was uninvited.

But there was one issue—they still wanted the wedding to hold at the OP's house, which he outrightly declined. Read the entire story for yourself as you keep scrolling down.

OP asks:

They wanted it because it’s private, has lots of open space for the reception and a nice view

Carla said a couple years ago she was still in love with the OP

The OP is not going to simply leave their home to them for the weekend

The Reddit thread went viral with over 44k upvotes and more than 3,000 comments

Rick seems to have insecurity and jealousy issues

You're not invited because you had history

Everything is his fault

This Redditor rolled their eyes so hard at this statement

Malicious destruction on top of typical wedding party mess

He has pur her in an impossible position

The nerve to think you owe them the property because she lied

This Redditor thinks there should be no wedding

Her fiance matches her personality

Make them pay venue prices for its use

You are being incredibly kind and they are rude

Are they paying to have their wedding at your place?

Do not put up with that crap

The things he's mad about are all things his fiancee did

They can't demand your place and kick you out

Do not let them use your property

They do not get to use your property

You and your home are a package deal

Don't let anyone try to make you feel bad

No one would be happy to know that their partner was in love with another person while they were dating. Not just that, they still hang out, it is coming to the wedding, and it's at that person's house.

It's a huge violation of trust, and anyone would postpone the wedding to give time to rebuild that lost trust. But you can't uninvite someone and still expect them to let you have your wedding at their house.

Maryjane