OP starts off her post like this where she talks about the kids and her BIL and sister's situation.
Then she gets into Noah, who is supposedly a picky eater, and this is what started the whole problem here.
It seems like OP did a good job with trying to get him to eat and just making things more comfortable for him.
This is day two and it seems like he still doesn't want to eat it. Maybe he just doesn't like fish.
The parents and her sister seem a little adamant about this, which is giving us just weird vibes about it, honestly.
Clearly, the kid doesn't like the fish or doesn't want to eat the fish. I don't know that he should be forced.
I would feel bad if I was OP and this was happening because it's sad and he shouldn't be forced to eat something he doesn't like.
This is when things got heated and OP's BIL came to pick up his son.
We don't get why OP's BIL was so upset about this because OP seemed to not do anything wrong.
Again we are just so surprised with how they reacted to this because the kid did nothing wrong.
Over 1,000 people agree with this comment and we have to agree with this too honestly.
I'd be worried too because this was an extreme way to react and it's clear that they are not on the same page either.
This is my opinion as well, and a lot of people think like this though so it's not really surprising,
People were kind of confused as to why OP's BIL and sister were upset about this situation or why they were even trying to feed their son fish anyway. It's an interesting situation and hopefully the BIL and sister can get on the same page and OP gets to spend time with her nephews again.