Woman Wants To Know If She's Wrong For Smoking Cigarettes In Her Backyard After Her Neighbor Complained That OP Is Exposing Her Kids To The Smoke
When you have close neighbors it's sometimes hard to tell where the boundaries lie with what you can do.
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We're back with another AITA thread post from Reddit that we're going to look into today. This thread is the best place to get unbiased advice and opinions from people on the internet on situations that you might be going through.
Sometimes you just never know whether or not you're in the wrong, and so you want to get other opinions on it to see if you should be looking at it from a different perspective. Doing this on the internet gives you an opportunity to have a ton of different opinions and perspectives to look into.
With this all being said, we are diving into a post today that was submitted by a woman who wants to know if she's in the wrong for smoking in her backyard after her neighbor complained that she was exposing her kids to the smoke. There are boundaries when being neighbors, but you're also on your own property.
People in the comments had a lot to say, and they were pretty on the fence about what the verdict was going to be. If you're interested in hearing more about this situation and what people had to say in the comments below as well, then keep on reading as we give you all the details on the full post and the comments.
OP's post was pretty straightforward and she seemed honest in the way she explained things to happen while not knowing if she's in the wrong.
u/Left_Kaleidoscope109She adds in an edit to explain why she doesn't smoke other places as some in the comments have suggested.
u/Left_Kaleidoscope109Some people said that it's her house and her yard so she should be able to do whatever she wants there.
VeryJoyfulHeart59It seems like other people think that things should've been handled a different way by both of them.
Ok-Culture-1983This person puts their perspective out there and quite a few people agreed with the way that they saw this situation.
avelakTechnically OP has rights, but also there is a limit and boundaries that may need to be set for those with close property lines.
unwholesome_coxcombPast smokers or even current smokers began commenting and explaining their point of view on it and what the neighbors might be experiencing.
SeraEckMany agreed that the smoke will travel far and there is a huge chance that the neighbors can smell it which means it is traveling there.
wobblyzebraThe problem of cigarettes in themselves is definitely being brought out in the comments here as people explain their points.
YogurtclosetOk6197The comments saying that she can essentially do whatever she wants on her property are true though, so her neighbor can't do anything about it.
Short-Classroom2559This comment said it pretty well and we definitely think they could be right.
ArkieRNAgain, everyone seems to be on the same page with their opinion and how it's seen.
stinson16There were a lot of opinions wrapped up in the comments section of this post, and we definitely understand where most of them are coming from. Ultimately, there are a lot of different things that play into this, and the legality of cigarettes and smoking them on one's property shows that there's nothing OP's neighbor can do.