The story in detail
A bit of background
OP is uncomfortable around kids. And she expressed her disappointment that her sister invited her for her wedding, which will be packed with little kids
OP tried getting her sister to make the wedding child free, to no avail. Consequently, she made a post on fbk accusing her sister of blocking her from attending
Now people are refusing to attend the wedding, including other family members
“You need to grow up. Sounds like your trauma is kids get more attention than you.”
“You lied publicly lied about being "kicked out" - you simply weren't able to dictate that others get uninvited because they might make you uncomfortable.“
“You didn't go into detail because it would unravel your lies and might make you look bad to everyone.”
“YTA. You are FORTY YEARS OLD. You need a better therapist because it appears yours has not helped you at all.”
“If you can't be around kids at all for one day, that is your problem and you should quietly not attend.”
“You're either trolling (I really hope you're trolling) or you're a very emotionally unhealthy 40 year old.”
In the eyes of the Redditors, OP was indeed the a****le in every possible way. They agreed that despite the understandable trauma, expecting her sister to tailor her wedding entirely to OP's preferences was unrealistic.
The decision to leave the wedding party was OP’s choice, and criticizing family members with exaggerated truths was a low blow. Sometimes empathy and compromise are key, even amidst personal struggles.
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