Bride-To-Be Faces Off With Sister For Daring To Use Her Wedding As An Opportunity To “Come Out”
“My wedding is neither the time nor place to reveal your sexuality!”
Jesse
- Published in Interesting
It was our narrator’s ( Original Poster’s) special day soon, and she was gearing up for the event of a lifetime. But where you have a large family, you can always count on drama—and this case was no exception.
Just two weeks before her wedding, she noticed her sister rocking her hair in vibrant hues. Ordinarily, personal choices about appearance wouldn't faze her, but this time was different.
First of all, the hair clashed hard with the wedding colors, and secondly, she already called in an exceptional photographer to capture some very specific family-style portraits.
This would be their first family photo since their parents got divorced, and it would really mean a lot to their grandparents—it really wasn’t the time.
When OP inquired if her sister was maintaining her new hair color for the wedding, she was met with an icy response laced with attitude. When OP let talks slip about potential Photoshop, her sister finally exploded.
She attributed the vivid colors to a pride flag, a symbol of her sexual identity, and made it clear that her long overdue self-expression would not be photoshopped.
OP explicitly stated her wedding was neither the time nor the place for self-expression. She could very well opt out of the photos if she didn’t want her hair photoshopped, but OP’s perfect family photos would not be ruined!
The conversation ended bitterly, and now OP’s sister came up with a flimsy lie as a guise to miss the wedding. Did OP take it too far?
The talk ended in a bitter standoff, and now, OP's sister concocted a flimsy lie to attempt to skip the wedding. Did OP crank up the drama too much?
The story in detail
Reddit.comA bit of background
Reddit.comOP’s sister dyed her hair the same color as the pride flag. Apparently, she came out clean to OP about her s*xuality
Reddit.comOP made it clear to her sister that she didn’t want her to use the wedding as an opportunity to come out to family. Rather, she can do it any other day
Reddit.comOP’s sister ended up opting out of the wedding
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Reddit.comHere’s how the Reddit community reacted to the story:
“NTA…She was planning to use your wedding to come out and to turn the spotlight onto herself.“
Reddit.comNo one else should be the center of attention on that day except the couple
Reddit.com“Somebody else paid for this event as a celebration of their wedding, no it is not okay to use it for your own agenda.“
Reddit.com“All she wanted to do was hijack your wedding. She didn’t care at all if she ruined it.“
Reddit.comOP’s sister attempted to use her wedding—the one day that was all about her—to come out to everyone and shift the spotlight to herself.
Redditors agreed that that was crossing the line. She has an entire 364 other days where she could do that.
Aesthetics for events such as weddings are important, and that was something everyone could agree on.
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