Here is the OP's dilemma:
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The OP explained SIL asked her if she could use their crib for her baby for a nap:
But the OP declined:
The OP's MIL called her selfish and spoiled, so she wanted to hear unbiased opinions:
The OP is a first-time mom, and it's completely understandable
A Redditor said that the baby could sleep anywhere
But another one disagreed
A Redditor wondered why a car seat is not safe for a nap
And someone explained
A Reddit user has a different opinion regarding the OP's dilemma
The OP was irrational
"This could've been a non issue instead of souring the relationship between her and SIL"
She should have let the baby sleep
The OP will understand it later when she becomes a mom
"Share, and be human"
"You could wash the crib sheet and it’s brand new"
They obviously don't know the risks
An eye for an eye
"Babies shouldn’t be sleeping an unsafe areas"
The OP was inconsiderate
"We all have to take care of each other and support each other particularly as parents"
Although the majority of Redditors supported the OP, many of them told her that she was being inconsiderate and selfish. Sho should have thought about her SIL's baby also; she wouldn't break her crib by using it for a nap.
But they also told her she would understand when she had her own baby.