Lady Feels Terrible For Ruining A Friendship Of Four Years Over A Bag Of Chips, Redditors Snap Her Out Of It

“I thought about it and I think we should go our separate ways

Maryjane

• Published in Interesting
• December 4, 2022

A friend can be someone you've known for a long time or someone who is very new to you. Many of us maintain these genuine friendships without giving them any thought.

They might be a new acquaintance you met at school or work, someone you connect with over a shared interest in sports or television, or someone else entirely. A friend can come from any area of our lives, so it's critical to consider the qualities that make for strong friendships, how they affect our lives, and what true friendships include.

For the majority of us, a friend is someone who stands with us throughout our daily lives. But that doesn't mean that just because someone lives next door to you, across the country, or even on the other side of the world, they are your friend. 

A friend is frequently someone you can trust or enjoy spending time with. The OP in today's story had a friendship of four years ruined, and the reason is just absurd.

The OP has been friends with J (as the OP chooses to call her in this story) since their first year in university, and they did everything together. The OP had a birthday party where she saw J sneaking chips into her bag.

She didn't care, but it became a problem when she asked J not to take anything from her sister's get-together. Keep scrolling to read the full story.

OP writes:

The OP had rescued a bird that fell out of its nest, low chance of survival but she wanted to try

Never said sorry and came back 6 months later and started talking to us again

The OP waited till no one was around and asked her to not take them

Half of the OP's friends say she did nothing wrong and that she’s always been like that with everyone

We've gathered some of the top comments from Redditors for you to read through below.

It is true in which case it is profoundly unhealthy

It is in fact her throwing away your friendship over chips

Something like a purse seems like a non starter

She would have ended the friendship for something else that's petty

This Redditor advised the OP to respect herself more

Some friendships are not sustainable for whatever reason

According to this Redditor, it is her loss

She always eats over at the OP's house and she never cares about it

It was bound to stop feeling like fun at some point

She has much deeper problems than you are aware of

Someone with whom you have a close relationship is your friend. Good friendships can stand the test of time and are essential in someone's life.

The OP's friendship couldn't stand the test of time and Redditors have advised that she move on. Leave your thoughts about this story in the comments below and share this post as well.

Maryjane