Lady Is Disgusted To Find Out That Her Roommate's Boyfriend Is A Potential Rapist, Vows To Spill The Beans
Dogs can understand consent, and children also comprehend it. You'd think that no grown adult would ever have trouble understanding it, as it is the one essential component that must serve as the cornerstone of all encounters, whether they are sexual or otherwise—at school, at work, or in bars.
But it seems that some males don't. When it comes to having consenting sexual relations with women, they simply "can't tell" or "aren't mind readers.
The OP brought a rather creepy story to the r/relationships subreddit community. It was about a guy named Nathan who came out of his room in the basement super drunk. The OP continued saying:
so he decided to start doing girls doggy style positioned, on purpose, to hit his partner's head against the wall. He says that most girls will do anything to make sex not awkward, so it was funny to him to see how many times he could slam their head into the wall, not letting them back up when they tried until they told him he was hurting them.
He said he counted the bangs on the head and his record was 100 times and the girl was bruised afterwards. He said he felt kind of bad, while he was laughing.
The OP was disgusted with this statement, and you can scroll down to read the entire story and know what the OP intends to do about it.
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It was funny to him to see how many times he could slam their head into the wall
To laugh and joke about doing those horrible things to women is absolutely disgusting
The OP has decided that she's telling his girlfriend in the morning what kind of man he is
An edit added by the OP to further address things
And the comments from other redditors roll in...
He is no longer allowed to be in the house
The OP should tell her directly, calmly and immediately
This redditor specially thanks the OP
The OP had some things to reveal in the comments
He immediately backed me up when I told Nathan that was rape and looked thoroughly disgusted the entire time. I will tell her there was a witness.
She isn't friends with him, but they're friendly. We've been talking about his emotional abuse. She has noticed, but she's not ready to leave yet. Hopefully this will push her along.
This redditor would spit on him if they could
This redditor was told some pretty disgusting things too
The OP should just be straight in her talks
The OP added this update later on
The idea that sexual assault is merely "miscommunication" brought on by men's inability to comprehend permission and sexual boundaries has received a lot of attention over the past few decades. And the result of almost all studies on the subject is rather simple: Males do understand consent, but some choose not to apply it.
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