Woman Is Concerned With Her Boyfriend's Excessive Boundaries - Which He Didn't Have In Previous Relationships

We can imagine that this ia a tough situation so we wonder what she's going to do.

Daphnie

• Published in Interesting
• November 29, 2023

We are back with a lovely Relationship Advice thread post from Reddit today, and this is just the start of an interesting story here. So many people come here to this thread to get unbiased opinions and advice on their relationship situation and, overall, if they're looking for any type of help.

So, with this being said, we are looking into a post that was submitted by a woman who is looking for advice on her relationship as she realizes some things that are concerning her. She explains the situation and what her concerns are with the boundaries that he's setting with her but hasn't set with any of his exes.

She is feeling a lot of feelings about this and finds the situation to be hard to navigate, but she's considering ending it with him because of all of this and just the fact that she feels like she's navigating an already difficult family situation.

If you want to take a look into the full post and all of the best comments that were left on it as well then keep on reading as we dive in and we share with you the best comments that were left on this and the original post.

OP's post starts off with her giving a little background on their relationship and on her boyfriend's past relationships as well because there's an age difference and experience difference.

She says in her edit that she kind of might want to end it with him after all of this because of all of the boundaries that he's setting with her and how it's making her feel.

So many people were in the comments telling her that there are a lot of different red flags happening within this relationship.

This guy most definitely has lots of baggage and it's pretty sad to see what's going on here and how much he's dragged her into.

Some people said that this guy knew exactly what he was doing and he's going for younger women for a reason now that he can't get anyone else to put up with him.

It's definitely about protecting him and it might not even be that he has her best intentions in mind but rather his best intentions in mind.

Many people were just already not happy with the age gap and they kind of assumed how this might end just based on that.

It seems like everyone in the comments here is talking about their age gap and how this is the start of their problem already.

This is definitely true, and as unfortunate as it might be, it's just something to consider as you're looking to date other people.

This definitely shows that he was intentional about picking a younger person to be with and it's just sad to see that he's using her and controlling her.

We definitely feel like there are a lot of things going on here that need to be addressed, and some of the biggest ones are how he's treating her overall. It seems like he has so much he needs to work through and work on that he doesn't need to be dating anyway at this point.

What do you think about this?

Daphnie