Wife Responds To Inappropriate Snapchat From A Woman On Her Husband's Phone, And Now He's Upset At Her Because She Overstepped Boundaries

This situation would probably be handled differently by everyone depending on their relationship.

Daphnie

• Published in Interesting
• March 23, 2023

We're back today with a pretty interesting post that was submitted on the AITA thread on Reddit. This thread is the perfect solution for people who are looking to get some advice or opinions but in an unbiased form instead of talking to their friends or family.

Ultimately these posts are submitted by people looking to see if they are in the wrong or the right for how they acted in a situation. For example, in today's post, we're going to dive into a post submitted by a wife who responded to a woman's Snapchat on her husband's phone, but he is upset about it because she overstepped.

He also says that the woman will now make his day terrible at work because of the response from his wife acting like him. However, people in the comments had a lot to say, which is why we wanted to take a look at this post and see what your opinion was.

With all this being said, if this sounds like something you're interested in, then keep on reading as we dive in and check out the full original post and also look at some of the best comments that were posted on there as well.

OP starts off by giving a bit of background and explaining how long her and her husband have been together.

Then she goes into the story itself and explains how her husband has a coworker that is constantly overstepping her boundaries with OP's husband.

She explains more of what they do and how their relationship is in terms of trust, open phone, etc.

She said that after she saw the post that she sent, she replied from her husband's phone and let her know that this was inappropriate to send to a married man.

She said that her husband was very upset at her and told her that the woman would make his life miserable when at work.

The wife says that she just set up a boundary that her husband was afraid to set up in the beginning. He shouldn't be upset at all and she doesn't really get why he is.

People immediately started telling her that she's NTA but that her husband is most likely probably hiding something. This person encourages her to ask her husband a bit more.

People assume that this guy is cheating especially because OP and him have been together for a very long time and since they've been young.

The girl is definitely out of line but the husband should have shut it down immediately when it started so it's a red flag that he didn't.

Ultimately everyone in this situation sucks but we all know that OP is definitely NTA in this situation as she was just setting boundaries that she thought should have been set already.

Both her husband and that other woman are out of line and they are both TA in this situation.

This person did say that OP crossed a line and maybe shouldn't have went about the situation this way at all.

Ultimately many people said that OP was NTA but a few people did say that she was out of line for going about the situation the way that she did. With its being said though, everyone also agreed that her husband was in the wrong too and obviously the woman is overstepping her boundaries heavily.

Daphnie