Woman Refuses To Attend Her Niece's Wedding After She And Her Resentful Mother Tried To Sabotage Her Wedding

“I don’t even know what kind of wedding it is, I don’t see the point in all this”

Maryjane

• Published in Interesting
• March 12, 2023

A wedding is a big day in the lives of the couple getting married. Of course, they would want their close family and friends to be present to witness it.

They may go out of their way to make preparations for everyone in attendance. So you can imagine going through all this stress only for the people whom you call family to ditch you on the D-day—no calls, no emails, nothing.

One would say that the OP in today's story has been through a lot at the hands of her own family, but you'll understand better when we dig into the story properly. Meet u/thatparkranger12890, the OP whose sister is 15 years older than her, and they've not had the best relationship.

The OP's sister has always been resentful towards her, and she passed these traits on to her kids. She would encourage her kids to insult the OP, disrespect her, and treat her like dirt.

The OP went ahead to list the things she has done for her sister's kids, despite all their mom did to them, but still, they were mean to her. Even when the OP was planning a wedding, she still invited her sister and her kids, but all they did was ridicule her.

On top of that, they didn't show up for her wedding. Now the OP's niece is getting married, and the OP has stood her ground on not coming.  

And here is the title...

She called the OP and she quickly went to pick her up

The OP's sister even said that her attitude is too disgusting to get married

The OP's mom told her to mark the calendar because they are going

The OP replied a bunch of comments and we've gathered them for you to enjoy below

Save yourself a lot of future misery

I don't even know what kind of wedding it is

It's ok to go no contact with toxic family members

You have been bullied and abused

You are being the bigger person for not showing up

You don't have to do a single thing

I don't see the point in all of this

The OP's mom said that they will reach out

Standing up for your right is not bad

They are toxic people who don't treat you with respect

She wants to play happy family at your expense

Live your life and be happy dropping their drama

Some things just hurt too much

This Redditor hopes the OP's husband's family are lovely

Simply don't do it and ghost them

Your husband and your baby are your family

The OP's sister has not apologized to this day

Redditors were in full support of the OP's decision. No one should be that mean to their own blood to the extent of ridiculing them about their wedding.

The OP got the "not the AH" verdict and we couldn't agree more. Drop your own comments below and share this post too.

Maryjane