Woman Gets Criticized By Her Family Members For Refusing To Care For A Dog

She isn't fond of dogs, but her family is dumping the responsibility on her.

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• Published in Interesting
• December 1, 2022

We all have that one family member who doesn't love dogs, whether it's a parent, a sibling, or an aunt. A lot of us have experienced the frustration of being told that our pet is not allowed in their house and not getting to show off our pup as much as we'd like.

But rather than taking offense and getting upset with them for not being dog lovers, it's important to show them respect and understanding. After all, everyone has different preferences when it comes to pets, just like they might have different tastes in food or clothes — it doesn't make them wrong or bad.

Showing respect also goes beyond just allowing their decisions; it means listening to their opinions without judgment or pushing further when they're clearly uncomfortable. Don't be like these people who are dumping the responsibility of caring for a dog on a family member who isn't a fan of canines.

An 18-year-old woman aired her sentiments on the "Am I The A**hole?" (AITA) subreddit. According to a user named SadAltruistic, her mom wants to get a dog.

The original poster (OP) has no choice but to accept her mom's decision despite not being fond of dogs. But there's one problem — this mom wants the OP to care for the dog while she's out of town or if she gets home late.

Since these things happen often, the OP refused the responsibility. Now, her family is calling her an a-hole for refusing to care for the innocent creature.

The OP lives with her mom.

Although she isn't a fan of dogs, her mom wants to get one anyway.

Despite being against having a dog, the OP's mom wants her to take care of it.

It seems like the brother wants the dog. Why not make him care for it?

The mother needs to be educated about dog responsibilities.

It seems she doesn't know what the responsibility entails.

The mom is in the wrong for taking a commitment she can't fulfill.

It's like this mom wants to enslave her daughter.

The OP's mom and brother obviously know nothing about caring for dogs.

The nerve of her brother.

The OP's mom should just make her son responsible for the dog.

Her family is trying to manipulate her. She definitely needs to hold her ground.

What the mom wants would be unfair to the dog.

And cats aren't too demanding.

He needs to do his part too!

The difference between caring for dogs and caring for cats

People who are away a lot should never get a dog.

The OP can always report to the shelter about what her mom plans to do.

Unfortunately, the dog won't come from a shelter.

Maybe the OP can talk to her aunt.

Some Redditors simply stated their judgment.

Looks like some people don't agree with the OP.

There may be a lot of dog lovers around the world, but we cannot fault people who aren't a fan of them. So let's respect the preferences of our family and friends.

We hope the OP continues to stand her ground. Otherwise, the puppy might end up in a family that will not properly care for it.

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