OP is a 30-year-old man and in the evening he enjoys swimming in his backyard pool.
Recently, while he walking his dog, a new neighbor named Janice introduced herself as living next door with her daughter.
The owner of the house, who used to live there, has been renting it out in recent years, and these are the new tenants.
Every evening, OP goes for a swim in his pool but the next-door lady is on her balcony and often watches him swim, but OP doesn't pay much attention to it.
Janice accused OP of luring her daughter, but OP clarified he was innocent and minding his own business.
She required the OP to stop using the pool, but the OP asserted that it was his property and went inside.
If his neighbor harasses him again, OP should report it to the police with video evidence.
OP could expect more of this.
OP should wear the tiniest speedo available.
Men typically wear shorts while swimming, and she's the one watching OP in his yard, which is a bit unsettling.
Perhaps she should advise her daughter to stop staring at OP while he swims.
Janice can supervise her daughter during OP's swimming routine if necessary.
OP's neighbor seems to be causing unnecessary drama.
OP has the freedom to use his pool without breaking any decency laws.
If the neighbor, Janice, keeps bothering the OP despite their attempts to solve the problem nicely, it might be a good idea for the OP to consider telling the police about it, especially if there's clear video proof of the harassment.
While the OP needs to have his privacy and enjoy his pool, they should also be ready for more problems with Janice. It's important to remember that Janice is the one watching the OP in his yard, which can be a bit strange.
Instead of telling the OP what to wear, Janice should teach her daughter not to stare at the OP while he's swimming. If needed, Janice can keep an eye on her daughter while the OP is swimming to address her concerns.
The main point is that Janice seems to be creating unnecessary drama in this situation, as the OP is allowed to use his pool without doing anything wrong.