Man Cries Out Online As His Wife Has Started Using Botox And He Dislikes It, Redditors React

"She looks a bit like a duck and I'm just not into ducks"

Maryjane

• Published in Interesting
• November 27, 2023

If you and your partner are in a relationship, you probably have a basic notion of what they do to keep up their appearance on a regular basis. Things like working out, using skincare products, and scheduling a regular appointment with a hair colorist every six weeks, amongst other things.

Also, you cannot know every one of your partners' routines, and even if you did, that would be a little strange. Nevertheless, you would be aware if your significant other got Botox or fillers, correct?

Well, a lip flip is a common technique that enhances the appearance of bigger lips without adding volume to them. The evidence of cosmetic treatment is practically on your face, so you may assume it would be hard to disguise, but modern techniques are more subtle than most people imagine.

Of course, it would be difficult to hide a facelift or rhinoplasty from someone, much less from your partner. However, many less invasive procedures don't reveal any visible bruising or spectacular outcomes, so you could conceivably keep it a secret.

The narrator revealed that he came home from a work trip, and his partner's lips just looked puffy. He didn't say anything and honestly thought very little of it, but the next day, it seemed even more pronounced.

This got the OP worried, as he's just not into it. He came online to express his concerns and seek advice, as he wants his partner to stop using it.

The OP didn't say anything about the Botox and honestly thought very little of it

We've gathered some of the most upvoted comments from other Redditors for you to read through below

This is something that makes her feel good

It's fine for the OP to ask if the wife did something

She probably wants it to be something the OP will notice

The OP should ask how his wife feels about it

The OP dropped more details in the comments section and here it is

I am reluctant to bring it up because she can read me like book. i do want to be supportive, its just that my actual feelings are: "why did you do this, you really don't need it."

To me she's perfect but i understand this has very little to do with me.

The filler will not last forever

It's her body and she can do with it whatever she likes

The OP should let her tell him about it

The OP should have an open relationship about it all

There are various risks associated with filler

Botox can endure for a few months to a few years, but it's not permanent depending on the kind and a number of other variables. Some Redditors say that although it can be dissolved, doing so carries additional health hazards so it's more advisable to wait for it to go away on its own.

What would you advice the OP? Leave them in the comments section below and share as well.

Maryjane