Mom Hates A Daycare Worker Who Seems Obsessed With Her Daughter, Complains To The Director, And Eventually Gets The Worker Fired

If you are parent who lets your kids stay on a daycare, would you agree with how this mom reacted?

Mary

• Published in Interesting
• July 27, 2022

Daycare centers are preferred by many parents as they provide an official and organized setting for children. Across several children's facilities, a director is in charge of overseeing the entire business, supervising carers when necessary, and passing daycares that are evaluated for regulatory reasons.

Parents' guidelines to comply with at these daycare centers are very specific (including the pick-up and drop-off schedules). Parents and guardians are already informed and aware of all that they need to do.

Using a daycare center rather than a nanny service is more cost-effective. As a bonus, parents have the chance to connect with fellow guardians who could offer assistance and childcare services to them.

With this agreement, your child will receive care no matter how long a teacher is out sick, how long they are late, or how weary they are. Daycare programs should provide a variety of activities throughout the day to help children learn new abilities. Some examples of these activities encompass listening to music, performing a song and dance, and telling stories.

The possible disadvantage of letting your child in daycare is that germs have more contact with them, increasing their chance of getting sick. In addition, depending on the state where you live, some teachers and workers in a daycare center are not obliged to acquire a specific number of hours for child care and safety training.

Considering these things, parents must look for daycare centers where they feel that their children are safe, not only with the facility but also with all of its workers. The same thing concerned a Reddit mom who posted about a worker caring for her daughter.

Daycare is an option mostly for working parents.

OP explained first about her daughter going to daycare.

The good thing about hourly updates.

When OP saw the worker kissing all over her daughter's face during pandemic.

Parents should feel safe towards daycare workers, especially if children are entrusted to them.

The first time OP talked to the director concerning the worker.

The daycare worker seems obsessed with OP's baby.

"Her baby"

OP saw the worker kissing her daughter's forehead.

OP asked the director to transfer to another room and that she felt uncomfortable about the worker's actions towards her daughter.

The director informed her that the daycare worker was fired.

OP was accused by her sister-in-law of overreacting to the situation.

#1 Right? It's creepy and suspicious.

#2 I mean, she can say the baby's her favorite but yea boundaries.

#3 And more reason why things like this SHOULD be addressed.

#4 Mother's gut can never be wrong.

#5 Plus you can't tell the real motive is.

#6 It is easy to spot the "weird" things especially when it comes to physical.

#7 After all, the employees were entrusted and the baby still can't tell if things are off.

#8 Definitely weird and unhealthy.

#9 Therefore, your side is valid.

#10 She must have violent reaction about it that's why.

#11 Exactly!

#12 Maybe the tension between her and the employee was too much to handle so?

#13 There must be other complaints about her before, it can't be just because of you.

#14 Could be.

#15 This is how it should be right?

#16 There's boundaries.

#17 Yes, but her actions are too suspicious and too much.

#18 "Explicit rules against this behavior."

#19 She sure has other complaints before and this was just a trigger that fired her.

#20 If it was an obsession, good thing you noticed it early.

#21 "Are you mad 'cause she's nicer tp your baby than you are?"

While others sided with OP, some Redditors also see her as the AH in her post. They argued that the worker just loved the baby more than the mother.

#22 "You're upset they're loving on your baby."

Parents would do anything for their children to be safe, and people could not blame this mom for expressing her concerns. However, it is also important to know the story's other side and not appear judgemental and biased towards others.

On the other hand, the parent never told the director to fire the worker. The story has a bigger picture that only those people involved knows.

Mary