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OP was obviously devastated and they both didn’t think they did anything wrong
OP's brother spent all of his money keeping them afloat and the least he could do is buy him something
OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the a-hole:
I might be an ah because although it isn’t my fault they are struggling my nephew is still innocent
Let's head into the comments section and find out what other Redditors have to say regarding the story
OP doesn't need to have contact with the nephew
Losing a spouse is devastating
They should host their own celebration and his parents can look after their son and grandkid
It's not the OP's responsibility to pick up the pieces if he isn't in a place to
The OP should enjoy his holiday with whoever makes him happy
The kid is young enough and the OP isn't obligated to give anything to anyone
They have sprung all these on the OP at the last minute
The OP wouldn't know what to get him anyways
It is not the OP's fault if his nephew didn't receive any Christmas presents. Many Redditors say that OP's brother and family ought to respect the boundary he has established and not cross it.
He was declared not the AH and you can leave your thoughts about this story in the comments section below. And don't forget to share with your loved ones to get their own verdict as well.