Man Throws A Tantrum After Discovering His Daughter Wasn't Clear About Her Decision To Move In With Her BF

"He also said I should be prepared for him not to visit if I move so I’ll only seen him a few times before he dies"

Maryjane

• Published in Interesting
• November 20, 2022

When people are in a serious relationship, one might be considering moving in with their boyfriend. Moving in together can be a thrilling and frightening prospect.

You've probably only ever seen your loved one up until now in their own space and possibly acting well. Living together requires daily exposure to all of your partner's sides.

Moving in together comes with its own set of special issues, including deciding how much time to spend together, how to divide up the money, and how to divide up the duties. In fact, one of the most important relationship milestones is moving in together.

It is a true test of your commitment and a sign that you might spend the rest of your life together. But it's equally crucial to approach it correctly.

The OP in today's story met her partner at the university, and they've been together for two years. They're now done with the university, and they planned on moving in together.

Due to financial constraints, they decided to move in with the OP's boyfriend's parents for a while to save some money for their own place. Rather than move her stuff all the way back home with her parents, it made sense for the OP to move straight to her boyfriend's house.

Her dad wasn't pleased about this though, and he voiced his concerns when the OP came back. The OP felt guilty about her decisions and decided to approach the AITA community.

Here is her story below.

The Title

We finished university and decided to move in with his parents

He expected me to move back and get a job there

The OP just feels really confused and panicky

Here are what Redditors had to say in response to the story.

You get to decide your own life

The OP's dad's behavior was and is childish

It's normal to move away from your parent's after schooling

Why did you sit through the lecture?

You aren't moving back to be under his thumb

You are not allowed to replace your dad with another man

Your plan isn't your dad's business

Do not move away on a bad note

It was his job to prepare himself for it

It seems like this is an isolated incident

This Redditor has a similar story to share

You could have been clearer on your decisions

You're an adult who is starting your own career

You all did not grow up in your grandparent's house

You should be able to move wherever you like

There's a lot of manipulation going on, on his end

For this redditor, the OP's dad will come around

An abusive behavior

He doesn't do it to be nasty

Most parents are wise enough to stay quiet

It sounds like the OP's dad is going to miss her but is handling it very badly. Yes, the OP could have been a little clearer on her plans, and that might have prepared her dad better so he felt less like this came out of nowhere.

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Maryjane