Guy Won't Help His Ex Move Her TV After She Dumped Him For Always Doing Things Wrong

"She told me I was too incompetent for her"

Maryjane

• Published in Interesting
• July 21, 2023

Finding fault is one of the things that might ruin a wonderful relationship. Even if both spouses really love one another, the relationship may fall apart if there is constant fault-seeking.

Your relationship may suffer if you always feel that your partner is wrong. The best strategy is to communicate how it makes you feel with your spouse.

However, if your partner consistently blames you or refuses to back down in an argument, you may be dealing with a narcissist, which makes the issue more challenging. You should also think about whether you are in a toxic relationship, in which case ending the relationship is probably the best course of action.

The fundamental issue is that many people are unable to pass judgment in a compassionate and productive manner. Additionally, they don't separate their partners' mistakes from their own when they occur. 

The OP broke up with his girlfriend, or rather, the girlfriend called things off because everything the OP said was just wrong. The way OP cleaned, the way he drove, and the way he shopped were all problems.

In fact, she told the OP he was too incompetent for her. The OP didn't care, as that was her decision.

As the OP was leaving, she asked me if he could help move a television back into the bedroom, and the OP told her to go find someone else to do it. 

And we kick off with the story's title

It wouldn’t have been much physical labor to assist her, but the OP just couldn’t bring himself to do it

OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the a-hole:

I refused to help her move a television that would have taken little effort on my part.

We've gathered up a bunch of the top replies from Redditors for you to read through below

Truth be told, the OP might have moved the TV in a wrong way too

Another Redditor who believes the OP would move the TV wrongly too

OP's ex stopped getting privileges when she broke up with him

She also berated how the OP packed his own things

This Redditor would have said the same thing

This Redditor believes the OP and his ex just weren't the right person for one another

It sounds like OP's ex was awful to him during the relationship

This Redditor brings forth the right answer to give the OP's ex

The OP doesn't owe her anything and this Redditor would block her everywhere as well

It's tough dealing or staying in a relationship with someone who always points out your mistakes. From what the OP pointed out, nothing he ever did was okay with his GF and many Redditors agreed that he was better off on his own.

At the end of the back and forth, the OP was declared not the AH, and you can share this post to your loved ones to get their opinions as well.

Maryjane