Momzilla Wears White Evening Dress To Son's Wedding "So Everyone Would Remember Who Gave Birth To The Groom," Risks Losing Her Marriage Over It

"I don’t know if I can come back from this with my wife"

Maryjane

• Published in Interesting
• June 13, 2023

Although the term "bridezilla" is well-known to most people, the idea of a "momzilla" may be unfamiliar. This label is given to the mother of the bride or groom, who is demanding a lot of attention and who tries to take charge of the entire occasion.

A "momzilla" tries to take control of the wedding planning, either because she is paying for it or because she wants to recreate her own wedding via her kids. The bride and groom find it challenging to handle this on top of the typical stress of wedding planning, and a strong personality can result in contentious disagreements that harm relationships.

Momzillas can be quite tough to handle, in part because they can be so cunning. The only way to cope with a momzilla is to either break up with the child or get her to put her foot down.

In this case, it was the OP who had to deal with his wife being a momzilla. OP's wife has issues with her ex-husband and his current wife since their marriage was the result of an affair.

OP's wife was planning her son's wedding, and he tried to help out in the small ways that he could but didn’t want to overstep his boundaries as a stepfather. It got to the extent that his wife decided to go against the wedding theme, and the OP wasn't having it, so he had to threaten her.

The story's title

OP tries to help out in small ways that he can but didn’t want to overstep his boundaries

She slowly went the bitter route and the OP tried to defend her with her son and her ex

She went to the wedding in that dress and was told to change by everyone

Let's head into the comments section and find out what other redditors have to say

The bride and the step son confirms it

It's not a place for the OP's wife to release her anger

So refreshing to see a step parent try so hard

You can't support someone showing up to someone else's wedding in a wedding dress

The OP had the good sense not support his wife

OP did good for standing up for his stepson

She wanted to make herself the center of attention

She should have been kicked out of the venue

This Redditor can only imagine how she behave when they have an disagreement

OP tried his best to make her change her mind

The OP doesn't want to spend his life with someone he's ashamed of

A serious talk about their marriage is long overdue

The OP did the right thing by not going

This Redditor is glad the OP stood his ground

"I want to replace the bride and marry the groom myself"

This is jot the way to deal with them

The OP's wife has serious issues

She's going to lose the relationship with her son

Upon learning that their child is getting married, a momzilla becomes a mother who can't help but make the wedding all about herself or intentionally tries to sabotage the wedding in order to keep her child to herself. The OP tried his best to stop his wife, but she was hellbent.

This just might break up her marriage, but we do hope things turn out for the best for the OP.

Maryjane