Man Escapes Through The Bathroom Window Just To Avoid His Mom's Attempt Of Reuniting Him And His Cheating Ex

"The only way to explain my side of the story is to tell everyone I was cheated on"

Maryjane
Man Escapes Through The Bathroom Window Just To Avoid His Mom's Attempt Of Reuniting Him And His Cheating Ex

Being unfaithful to a spouse or other partner is referred to as infidelity or cheating. It usually refers to violating a promise or commitment by having sexual or romantic relations with someone who is not your significant other.

Knowing why a spouse cheated probably won't make you feel any less hurt, but being able to explain and analyze the action will clear up some confusion. Also, it might give you more self-assurance about how to handle the situation going forward, whether that involves trying to mend your relationship or moving on if you decide to break up.

Meet u/holidayaholethrow, a Redditor who found out that his ex-partner of four years, Sarah, whom he intended to marry, actually cheated on him. She begged the OP to give her another chance, but he broke off everything.

The OP never told anyone why they broke up. And for obvious reasons, his ex also didn’t tell people they broke up because she cheated.

So many people have “blamed” the OP for the breakup, including his mom. Sarah has been talking with the OP's mom and has convinced her that if they could talk one more time, they would be able to reconcile.

So the OP's mom has been trying to put pressure on the OP to speak with Sarah, but he wasn't giving in. Find out what happens next as you keep scrolling to read the full story below. 

OP asks:

OP asks:u/holidayaholethrow

It all started with the OP finding out that his ex-partner cheated on him

It all started with the OP finding out that his ex-partner cheated on himu/holidayaholethrow

The OP's mom has been applying hard core pressure on him to talk with Sarah

The OP's mom has been applying hard core pressure on him to talk with Sarahu/holidayaholethrow

Now the OP's mom is cutting ties with him over his behavior

Now the OP's mom is cutting ties with him over his behavioru/holidayaholethrow

Here are a few comments selected out from the viral Reddit story that received more than 43k upvotes

Here are a few comments selected out from the viral Reddit story that received more than 43k upvotesReddit

This Redditor is asking the OP to tall the whole truth

This Redditor is asking the OP to tall the whole truthReddit

Sarah should not have lied to your mom

Sarah should not have lied to your momReddit

Why would the OP choose to be this immature? A Redditor asks

Why would the OP choose to be this immature? A Redditor asksReddit

Enlisting others to help and mend what she broke

Enlisting others to help and mend what she brokeReddit

Taking off through the window is straight savage

Taking off through the window is straight savageReddit

Cheating is jot emasculating or humiliating

Cheating is jot emasculating or humiliatingReddit

Sometimes, you just have to man up and own it

Sometimes, you just have to man up and own itReddit

The easiest decision ever

The easiest decision everReddit

Why would the cheating reflect badly on you?

Why would the cheating reflect badly on you?Reddit

You brought this on yourself

You brought this on yourselfReddit

Your family is really something else

Your family is really something elseReddit

You have no idea what this girl has been telling your mom

You have no idea what this girl has been telling your momReddit

A giant blow up in front of the family would have been a better alternative

A giant blow up in front of the family would have been a better alternativeReddit

They also need to know what actually happened

They also need to know what actually happenedReddit

Your ex is ridiculous for trying to use your family

Your ex is ridiculous for trying to use your familyReddit

You did not do yourself any favor

You did not do yourself any favorReddit

Literally all of this could have been avoided if...

Literally all of this could have been avoided if...Reddit

Your family should respect your decision

Your family should respect your decisionReddit

You should have done that a long time ago

You should have done that a long time agoReddit

Each instance of infidelity is unique and serves a distinct purpose. The OP couldn't go on with the relationship because the thought of his ex's infidelity was completely emasculating and humiliating.

Redditors understood what the OP was passing through and after all the back and forth, he was declared "not the AH" in this story.

Maryjane