Parent Rescues Daughter After Friends' Parents Refuse to Feed Her During Sleepover

"I would’ve gladly given my daughter money, instead you sitting there laughing about not feeding my kid?

Sophia

• Published in Interesting
• December 18, 2023

Sleepovers at a friend's house are a cherished part of childhood, offering kids a sense of independence and fun. However, they also come with a level of trust and expectation from parents that their children will be cared for and safe.

The Reddit story shared by OP highlights a situation where this trust was broken, leaving OP to question the care provided during a sleepover. OP's daughter, excited for a sleepover with her friend, found herself in an uncomfortable situation.

At a McDonald's drive-thru, her friend's parents refused to buy her food, leaving her hungry and upset. This incident raises concerns about the responsibilities of adults hosting sleepovers.

While it's understood that each household may have different rules or budgets, basic hospitality, especially towards children, involves ensuring their needs are met, including providing food.

The situation became more distressing for OP upon hearing the parents laughing about not feeding her daughter. This lack of empathy and care prompted OP to swiftly retrieve her daughter from the situation.

Sleepovers should be a source of good memories, not distress or neglect, making it crucial for hosting parents to uphold a duty of care towards all children in their home. Just take a look at this Reddit post...

OP permits his 14-year-old daughter to sleep over at her friend's, having previously met the friend's parents.

Dropped daughter off at sleepover. Texted later: no food, friend's parents laughed when called.

Spotted daughter at McDonald's, confronted friend's parents, warned against contacting her, and left.

OP was upset about not knowing the friend's parents' budget as he was willing to provide money, and is frustrated by the lack of communication.

Scroll down to see what people had to say...

"You absolutely did the right thing."

Invited for laughs, but a McChicken costs less than their humor budget. Well played!

In the Northeast, even the dollar menu has retired. McChickens are now historical artifacts!

App perks to the rescue!

It's a sleepover, not a hunger strike.

Budgeting and sleepovers don't mix like McDonald's and fine dining. They should've stuck to hosting a "Ramennight" instead!

Props to good parenting.

Priorities, people.

Who skips the kid at a food run? That's not a meal, it's a missed opportunity for parenting points!

Laughing about not feeding a kid? That's a comedy show no one RSVPed for.

Hospitality is good food, not a comedy roast about empty stomachs. Kudos for the quick extraction!

Excluding a kid from the feast and making it a comedy show? Low-budget bullies.

"She wasn't feeling good with those people."

OP: Parenting MVP for believing and rescuing on request.

Hosting wisdom: Invite, provide. It's not just a sleepover; it's basic etiquette, and they missed the memo.

Daughter over dollars any day. If they're on a budget, their McDonald's math needs a happy meal upgrade.

Smart daughter, smart move! Uncomfortable? Call for help. Parental drive-over rescue: 10/10.

Such incidents remind parents that, despite knowing the other family, there's no guarantee of how children will be treated. It underscores the importance of clear communication about expectations and boundaries when children are staying over at someone else's home.

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Sophia