Woman Kept Glancing At One Mom As A Sign To Keep Their Toddlers Quiet In A Theater During Nutcracker, Gets Told Off

She can't enjoy the show with noisy toddlers, so she decided to leave.

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Woman Kept Glancing At One Mom As A Sign To Keep Their Toddlers Quiet In A Theater During Nutcracker, Gets Told Off

Going to a play is a great way to spend quality time with your family, but it’s easy for children to get over-excited and break that special, peaceful atmosphere. So how can you make sure your tykes will keep their volume down in the theater?

Well, there are a few tried-and-true methods. Firstly, pick a play with content appropriate for your entire family. Then discuss the expected behavior before you enter the theater so everyone is on-board with expectations.

Have some games handy, and let your child play throughout the stage performance. If they get too noisy or wiggly, take them out of the theater until they settle down.

Just remember that most kids don't have long attention spans, so plan your outings accordingly. Be responsible parents so that you don't inconvenience people who paid money to relax and enjoy the show.

In today's post, we look at the story of a woman who paid for expensive tickets to watch The Nutcracker. To fully enjoy the show, she kept glancing at a family with noisy toddlers.

She hoped to give the mother a sign to keep her kids quiet. But during the show, the mom criticized her actions.

The original poster (OP) mentioned that she and her boyfriend left during the intermission. She asked the "Am I The A**hole?" (AITA) subreddit if what she did was wrong.

Tickets to The Nutcracker were expensive.

Tickets to The Nutcracker were expensive.pee-inthe-BALLS

Behind them is a group with noisy toddlers.

Behind them is a group with noisy toddlers.pee-inthe-BALLS

She tried to send a message by looking back at the group.

The mom of the toddlers noticed what she's doing. She did not like it.

She tried to send a message by looking back at the group.pee-inthe-BALLS

She asks the AITA community if glancing at the group was an a-hole move.

She asks the AITA community if glancing at the group was an a-hole move.pee-inthe-BALLS

The OP could've told the usher the problem.

The OP could've told the usher the problem.ariesgal11

When taking children to places, it's important for parents to consider if they'll inconvenience the people around them.

When taking children to places, it's important for parents to consider if they'll inconvenience the people around them.MichaSound, Critical_Librarian71

Why bring babies to these shows?

Why bring babies to these shows?Striking-General-613

A Redditor believes that noisy toddlers are to be expected since it's a family-friendly show.

A Redditor believes that noisy toddlers are to be expected since it's a family-friendly show.Bananapanda123, Smee76

That's what we call responsible parents.

That's what we call responsible parents.Shot_Cupcake_2918

A Redditor shares a funny commotion at the theater that she witnessed.

A Redditor shares a funny commotion at the theater that she witnessed.juliaaskig

A Redditor doesn't like parents who allow children to make noises in such an environment.

A Redditor doesn't like parents who allow children to make noises in such an environment.earmares

A user believes that the toddlers, no matter how noisy they were, can be there since the show is meant for all ages.

A user believes that the toddlers, no matter how noisy they were, can be there since the show is meant for all ages.Consistent-Cricket70

The mom could've done this.

The mom could've done this.JukkiLine

Not all parents do this, sadly.

Not all parents do this, sadly.Defiant_Ingenuity_55

Ushers can help when there are disruptive children.

Ushers can help when there are disruptive children.FoolMe1nceShameOnu

It's important that parents teach their children to behave in a theater if they plan to take the little ones to watch with them.

It's important that parents teach their children to behave in a theater if they plan to take the little ones to watch with them.FoolMe1nceShameOnu

Keeping children quiet in the theater is part of responsible parenting.

Keeping children quiet in the theater is part of responsible parenting.FoolMe1nceShameOnu, CheetahPatronus16

Bribing can work too!

Bribing can work too!sybersam6

Hiring a baby sitter is always an option.

Hiring a baby sitter is always an option.ComicStarchild7, kimputer7

It was a wrong move to engage personally. Ushers are there to solve problems between customers.

It was a wrong move to engage personally. Ushers are there to solve problems between customers.The__Riker__Maneuver

The mom was being inconsiderate when she allowed her toddlers to make noises during the performance.

The mom was being inconsiderate when she allowed her toddlers to make noises during the performance.JMarchPineville, Hour-Performance-951, Manager-Limp

Although most people believe that she wasn't wrong in glaring at the noisy group, she could've done better. Whenever there are problems in a theater, people can always report to the ushers.

They are trained to handle these situations. So it's best to let them handle the problem than directly confront the noisy ones.

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