Things People Do That We Silently Judge Them For

Is it okay to judge someone? But what if they are actually not doing it right.

Navkiran

• Published in Interesting
• February 10, 2022

Judging people is something we all do on a regular basis. We're continuously evaluating and interpreting the world around us, whether we're conscious of it or not.

In our brains, we're making comments on people and situations, examining how the world matches our idealized vision of things, and chastising anyone who does something wrong!

Humans have a tendency to judge others, both consciously and unconsciously, and there are a variety of reasons for this. As youngsters, we are frequently reminded not to judge others, and tales are presented about how criticizing people might make us lose out on opportunities to discover what is actually going on behind our perception.

We sometimes evaluate others to feel superior to ourselves, pointing out flaws in others and feeling better about ourselves as a result. We utilize it to figure out where we belong, recognizing who we want to be, what we want to achieve, and who we don't want to be.

It's sometimes a reaction to our own weaknesses, and we blame others for what we don't like or don't see in ourselves. Other times, it's to fit into a larger group of people who judge something or someone, and we conform and act in accordance with their judgment.

The ones making an effort despite the fact it is working or not are real hardworking people.

I immediately judge you if you make fun of someone who's trying. I saw someone make fun of an overweight classmate despite the fact that he was doing diets, running, and exercising. He's putting an effort and you have no right to s**t on him.

People should at least care about others being affected.

People who have no awareness of their surroundings when they're out in public.

It doesn't cost anything to wait your turn in a queue, hold a door open for someone, turn on your indicators 10 seconds earlier than you just did, or not block off the entire pavement because you want to hold hands with your husband / wife.

It's so selfish. Drives me mad just thinking about it.

Thank you for the gold, kind stranger.

Change this 'someone is paid to clean after me' attitude, Please.

Littering. It hurts to watch, I don't see how people can litter.

Edit: Hey Cloin

When they know they cant feed the kids, then why have them.

having a ton of kids while poor

True that, Its so wrong to discriminate someone in the basis of their appearance.

Racism. In any form.

Half knowledge is dangerous and people who do this should be embarrassed.

When they have no knowledge of the topic but is still arguing to the person who actually has the knowledge. I mean seriously if you dont know what you're talking about then stfu

Keep your talks to yourself man.

People who talk really loud on the phone in quiet public places.

God blessed you with eyes make use of it.

People walking toward you that don't put equal effort into avoiding collision. I'll move a bit, but you should do the same. You expect me to walk around you?

Especially the ones who believe their child can never do anything wrong.

Parents of unruly children

There are indicators in vehicles for a reason and that is to avoid accidents.

Not using a turn signal when driving. It's not that hard, and it's pretty arrogant not to use one.

Right, clean the toilet after using it so the next person doesn't feel gross.

I can't stand people who piss on the toilet seat and don't clean it.

Like a movie theatre, clubs and pubs. Like, let your child grow a bit and then take them along.

People who bring children to situations that are not appropriate for children.

Take your time, but do it right.

Parking.

If you can't get within the lines the first time, it's ok to adjust.

The kid must be screaming only because it needs something maybe food or water or some attention.

Not paying attention to your screaming kid. Like not even trying.

If you don't wanna learn, its okay! But DO NOT stop others.

I judge people who shut down those asking questions and trying to learn more

Everyone is independent and are capable to take their own decisions.

There's nothing I dislike more than when a husband feels like he has to act like his wife's authority while other people are around. I hate gender roles in relationships

Such people should be thrown outside the theatre.

People who have their phones out in a goddamn movie theater. We all payed the same price. I don't care if you don't want to get your money's worth, I do. I am going to yell and you and if you don't stop, throw popcorn at you till you do.

Keep your political rants to yourself.

Constantly posting condescending political rants on facebook.

That reflects on someone's moral and ethical values.

Anyone who adopts a "whatever" policy to being late. I freak out when I'm late for something, and it absolutely blows my mind when people just don't care.

These kinds of people are the ones who spoil the whole society; even when a person wants to grow in life, these people pull them back. Be aware of such unbothered and negative people because they will ruin themselves and take you along.

Share this story with everyone and tell them to be more responsible and live their life with good moral and ethical values.

Navkiran