Man Gets Devastated After Losing His Job And The Love Of His Life, Refuses To Respond When She Asks Favor

"I feel like my brain will melt if I don't find some clarity soon"

Maryjane

• Published in Interesting
• December 29, 2023

Breakups may be nasty and can involve a lot of complex and deep emotions that you may have to navigate. Some are negative, such as rage or grief, and some could be good, like relief, comprehension, or a sense of liberation.

It's possible to feel as though you're losing a friend when you lose a partner. It will probably take some time to establish new routines, social ties, and everyday habits if you live together or spend a lot of time together.

It's important to give yourself time to process any lessons you want to learn about yourself or the relationship in general. Instead of dwelling on regret or self-loathing, try to apply the lessons you acquired from the relationship to building a life you value and want.

You might also need to distance yourself from shared acquaintances, pastimes, or locations that bring up memories of your ex, depending on the situation. The OP was in a relationship with a co-worker, and it was the most profound love story of his life.

The connection he felt with her was unparalleled, and she instantly became his best friend due to the deep conversations they had and their shared interests. Later on, she started acting cold towards the OP, and gradually, they started ghosting each other.

The emotional toll became unbearable, and the OP eventually had to quit his job. The OP held onto the hope of potentially fixing things between them, but his hopes were crushed.

Read the full story below. 

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The emotional toll became unbearable for the OP, and he eventually had to quit his job

The OP chose not to respond, believing she was merely trying to toy with his emotions

OP's ex-girlfriend has deactivated her Instagram account, leaving him in a state of confusion

OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the AH:

AITA for blocking my friend because he said the news in the stupidest way ever possible? Or me not responding to my ex and now after she disabled her social media I feel bad for her?

Let's head into the comments section and find out what other Redditors have to say regarding the story

The OP should first start with a paternity test

Relationships need a clean end before any rekindling of friendship can take place

She definitely sounds like a head case

This Redditor needs an answer to the question

The OP is back in the comments still asking...

It would be easy if she's asking the OP to call her

You will be more ready for a new relationship that better meets your needs and advances your personal development if you have learned from your previous relationships. In the long term, your development will also make you a better partner.

Yes, a shattered relationship hurts and can completely derail us but it doesn't have to be the end. The OP was given the AH verdict and you can drop yours in the comments section below.

Maryjane