Drama Ensues After A Redditor Shows Her Roommate The Accusatory, Jealousy Texts His GF Has Been Sending Her

"I told my coworker today, and few thought I was being petty because Amanda has insecurities she needs to work through..."

Ayoub

• Published in Interesting
• May 10, 2023

Being accused of something you didn't do is one of the worst feelings anyone can go through. When you know for sure that you didn't do something and people still insist on making you look bad, it can really sting.

When some people get into toxic relationships, they don't realize that their friends and family will also be affected by their partner's toxicity. As long as they are aware of it, people should protect their friends from their partner's toxic tendencies. 

You can tolerate toxicity and learn how to live with it, but your friends might not be ready to make the same sacrifice. You can't impose that on the people in your life.

A Redditor who goes by the username u/AdDazzling4731 made a post on the r/AmItheA**hole subReddit where she explained how her roommate's girlfriend sent her accusatory, jealous texts that she then sent to her roommate. The user was having a Star Wars marathon with her boyfriend, roommate, and roommate's girlfriend, and her behavior bothered the girlfriend.

A co-worker's reaction made OP doubt how she handled things, so she decided to consult with the Reddit community. Scroll down to check out the full Reddit post, and scroll a little further to read the comments from the original post. 

Here's the original post by Reddit user u/AdDazzling4731:

OP's phone was in her bedroom, so she couldn't read the texts right as the roommate's GF sent them.

OP was surprised to find the accusatory texts the GF had been sending her the entire night.

OP feels she might be the a-hole because of the reason below:

Here's how the Reddit community reacted to u/AdDazzling4731's post:

People should protect their friends from their partner's abusive behavior.

OP probably saved her roommate from a toxic relationship.

Insecurity doesn't justify that kind of behavior.

OP provided her roommate with valuable information about his partner.

That is seduction at its finest. OP is a danger to society.

Amanda and the co-worker would probably get along.

"The actual nerve of some people blows my mind."

Amanda has no right to supervise OP's interactions with her boyfriend.

"Perfect case of not your circus, not your monkey."

Eric needs to acknowledge his GF's toxic behavior and act fast.

That's a way to "mark your territory."

That's the right way to deal with this situation.

"He deserved a crack at the problem."

OP's roommate had the right to know.

Op's roommate needed a warning, and OP provided that.

"I hope your friend reconsiders this relationship."

OP shouldn't have to deal with her roommate's jealousy and accusations. She reacted correctly by showing the texts to her roommate since he has the right to know that his partner is making his friends uncomfortable with her toxic behavior.

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