Lady Tells Girl Who Is Obsessed With Her Boyfriend That She's Desperate And Pathetic, Friends Call Her The B-Word

"You sound incredibly desperate, going after somebody else's boyfriend"

Maryjane

• Published in Interesting
• February 25, 2023

Everyone has experienced moments of uncertainty. Humans continuously think, and some of those thoughts may contain uncertainty.

This could make you feel insecure. Too much insecurity might cause issues in your relationships and daily life.

Insecurity is a feeling of inadequacy (not being good enough) and uncertainty. It causes anxiety about your objectives, connections, and capacity to handle particular circumstances.

Everyone experiences insecurity occasionally, and it can occur for many reasons and manifest itself in various facets of life. Body image is a common cause of insecurity.

Many people doubt if they meet an enforced ideal and feel anxious about their appearance. This kind of insecurity can affect people of all physical shapes, and in today's story, the OP believes that someone is insecure about herself.

This someone is the OP's classmate and is obsessed with the OP's boyfriend. She goes out of her way to be paired with him in group activities, and she recently stepped down from a main role in a play they are doing so she could be in a more minor one, simply because this character has a romance with the OP's boyfriend.

The OP says she hasn't said anything to her because she seems pretty insecure. This classmate displayed an act at an after-party that made the OP snap and sort of shout at her.

Read the entire story below. 

The Headline

There's this one girl in the OP's class who is obsessed with the OP's boyfriend

They performed the play and had a small after party where she got slightly drunk

The OP feel like a d*ck because she's obviously insecure and whatnot

The Reddit thread went viral with over 44k upvotes and 4.3k comments. Here are some of the top replies below

You couldn't just watch and let her steal your man

This Redditor is glad the OP stood her ground

You tried to ignore it but she kept pushing

Maintain your lane

There was no chance to talk to her about it

She wouldn't have stopped until she got what she wanted

She literally came up to him to have a conversation

You will both grow out of it soon

You're both adults making your blow-up at a party

You might have come on too strong

Why does she have to point it out beforehand?

Approaching him about it was out of line

She doesn't care that you're in a relationship

There's so much teenage drama here

This Redditor thinks that the OP did something that most people would do

Talk to her properly and explain how you feel

He let you be the bad guy here

Your boyfriend already had a clingy pathetic fan girl

What did she think was going to happen?

Insecurity could result from a traumatic experience, recurring themes from the past, social conditioning (learning norms by watching others), or local surroundings like a person's home, workplace, or school. Redditors agreed that sexual harassment of men is real, which is what the OP's classmate displayed.

Men do not deserve this disrespectful treatment, and no one does, so the OP was given the "not the AH" verdict.

Maryjane