Furious Wife Kicks Out Husband After He Sold Her Cat Because It Was "Annoying" Him
Red flag, red flag!
Sophia
- Published in Interesting
Relationships are important– be it with friends, family, and significant others. The people involved should make a conscious effort to keep the relationship alive and strong.
Built with love, care, and trust, a relationship is a strong, but also a fragile thing. It takes time for it to grow, through the connection and experiences you share, but it can take just a few moments to be destroyed in the dust.
Trust is one of the most vital components of a relationship. It is believing that the other person will do the right thing, or that they will do everything in their power to make sure they choose the best option in the spectrum of choices.
Making decisions that may affect your relationship must take a considerable time for contemplation, weighing out the consequences of each choice. People most likely know their partner/s well enough to have a pretty good idea of what makes them happy or upset, right?
Being with someone you know and trust for a long time, you assume that they will always be the ones who have your back, or that they would never do anything you did not agree to. But alas, not all people think this way.
There are individuals - husbands - out there who– even after talking it out and resolving the matter w/ their partners– still manage to break their significant other’s trust. This particular one got kicked out of the house for what he did.
Here's what OP posted:
RedditThis couple has been together for 2 years and they own a cat. The husband never complained about their new furbaby until recently.
RedditHe complains about their “annoying” cat... after a year of getting it, which confused OP.
RedditTurns out he was just putting up with it—Molly the cat—because of OP. Of course, she was mad, because he never told her that.
RedditTheir argument ended and they came to the conclusion that Molly is going to be given to OP’s cousins since she was assured that they will care for her. At the same time, OP can easily visit and spend time with the cat. He agreed.
RedditThe cat is gone– the husband sold her cat on a website (Gumtree) and she was very upset, rightfully so!
RedditShe got rid of him. Kicked him out.
Just like that.
RedditHere's what people have to say:
Quit relationship. Enjoy life with cat.
RedditIf OP’s not TA, then her husband is! Also, some tips to get your cat back in case this happens to you:
RedditOP made the right decision. He knows she didn’t want him to do what he did, but he still sold Molly anyway.
RedditSwap the sold cat for the husband. Redditors don’t think she won’t make a lot of money from him but at least he’s gone?
RedditPut him up on sale!
RedditTime to split. Not later, now.
RedditHow did he do that though?
RedditA scary thought, but something to ponder on:
RedditOn a more serious note, trusting someone and them doing this to you really sucks. It just proves that being able to trust someone cannot be measured by time.
RedditPeople out here pointing out some faults in the replies and coming up with solutions for said faults.
RedditWe're behind you, OP! Lol.
RedditNo contemplation needed.
RedditCan this be the actual reason for his actions? Not justifiable. At all.
RedditThere is more to this incident. It’s not just the cat!!!
RedditGreat tip, but thank the heavens Molly is found!
RedditHere's an update:
RedditAnd another:
RedditHaving to come to an agreement only to find out that they didn’t keep their word—and did even more horrible things—is definitely a betrayal of trust. It just sucks that the 2 years of being together don’t compare to the deception OP has experienced.
Thank heavens that Molly was found—and the husband is out (literally)!
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