Lady Shocked To See Husband's Ex At Their Date, Questions Her Self-Worth As Her Husband Has No Reasonable Excuse

"Why am I not good enough? Am I wasting my time being a rebound?"

Maryjane

• Published in Interesting
• October 19, 2023

There is a big chance that your partner has an ex, and sometimes, they might talk about them. You cannot make yourself a better match or correct the issues in your partner's past relationship.

Being authentic and striving to improve your relationship are the only things you can do. It's important to avoid the urge to find out everything you can about your partner's ex, including their physical attributes and how sexually active they were (believe me, it's no good).

It will simply drive you insane, and it won't strengthen your bond. One ought to be mindful because when some exes are single, they get along wonderfully at the other party, but when one of them starts dating someone else, things get dicey!

A new member has entered the group, and this "replacement" has a tendency to bring out the worst in individuals. The narrator's husband decided to take her on a date, only for his ex to show up there.

This is someone who tried to sue the OP's husband when he and the OP started to date. She threatened to deal with the OP, shouted that her husband would never get a better woman than her, and told the OP that her husband or boyfriend was a broke person.

The OP confronted her husband, and he made a poor attempt at apologizing for tormenting the OP by talking about her. Read the full story for yourself below.

OP writes

They sat at the table and the OP thought everything was going well until the ex showed up

OP's husband asked her to lose weight, grow her hair out, get a backside like her amongst other things

Let's head into the comments section and find out what other Redditors have to say regarding the story

This Redditor would never have married such a person

The OP says he still follows the ex on social media

The OP shares more info in the comments

He didn't choose to go there because of her. She isn't there every single time he goes to visit. She lives in a completely different state over 1k miles away. That's why I said the sister-in-law traps him. We made a resolution.

The new boundary is now at our house. The friend and wife can come here and I'll hang out with their kids so they can party. We are having a heart to heart with the sister-in-law to mind her business. I'll be more involved when they come around.

The OP is good enough

Finding someone who appreciates you

This Redditor wants to know what the lawsuit was about

The OP has way bigger problems

It's clear as day OP's husband still in love with the ex

Competition are for athletes so why is it that after a split, you see people competing with each other instead of working as a team even when they're married? This is no way to raise joyful, healthy, and well-adjusted kids.

Redditors agreed that the OP shouldn't have to be in a marriage when she feels unloved. Leave your own thoughts about this story in the comments section below.

Maryjane